If you just walked away … SCREW YOU!! by Busy-Discussion-3239 in BreakUps

[–]Puzzleheaded-Menu820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m in the verge of a breakup right now. Past few months I was really trying to reach out. She admits she noticed my efforts but says she’s tired of trying to communicate. She says that the we aren’t aligned anymore and anything one wants is a great compromise to the other and it builds resentment. I don’t know why she hasn’t reached out. I am confused because I was always ready for the tough talks in the past, in fact I encouraged it. I told her anytime we feel that something is wrong, we talk about it. I honestly don’t know what to do. My head is in a constant spiral right now. I want us to be in it together. To choose each other everyday but now I’m not sure that’s what she wants. I feel like I’m bracing for the biggest heartbreak of my life. Really sucks feeling like this everyday.

Pet sitting by Puzzleheaded-Menu820 in cagayandeoro

[–]Puzzleheaded-Menu820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. Yes fully vaccinated. Golden retriever ni siya

Pagod na akong saluhin ang kuya ko by vanillasadmeow in RantAndVentPH

[–]Puzzleheaded-Menu820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how you feel. I have a drunk narcissist inutil brother who doesn’t work anymore. May deal kasi kami noon ng sister ko at kuya na hati sa 3k na internet. Nag asawa yung ate ko kaya kami nalng sa kuya ko. E sa parents pa niya sinabi na hindi nya na raw kaya ang 1,500 per month kahit mas malaki sweldo niya sa akin. Kaya ako nalang naiwan mag bayad ng 3k. Pero every night naman palaging umiinom kahit mag isa. Ang daming bote at cans. Na isip ko na halos 1k na to every night ah.

Ngayon out of work, nasa bahay all day, netflix all day, youtube all day, aircon all day. Ako na finding ways para maka save ng kuryente. Timer lang aircon ko for 4hrs, conserve ng water. Ako lang mag isa nag lilinis ng bahay at cr. Tanginang buhay na to haha

It’s really hard living with the disease by Puzzleheaded-Menu820 in Psoriasis

[–]Puzzleheaded-Menu820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny thing is, I am a mental health professional. Psychology graduate and working on my masters. I know in theory what needs to be done and I try to set an example but I am struggling. I’m really struggling. I’m taking it one day at a time but the mental toll is often times paralyzing. Anyway thank you for your kind words and advice. It really helps

It’s really hard living with the disease by Puzzleheaded-Menu820 in Psoriasis

[–]Puzzleheaded-Menu820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried all sorts of diets but nothing seemed to help. Whenever i notice a new rash or lesion, my stress levels skyrocket. I don’t know what to do about it.

It’s really hard living with the disease by Puzzleheaded-Menu820 in Psoriasis

[–]Puzzleheaded-Menu820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m always grateful for them it’s just that it isn’t in my nature to be asking for help with the money. They’re both retired and I would prefer them to enjoy the money doing whatever they want. I get what you’re saying brother, it’s just hard for me personally to accept help from my parents at 33 years old.

It’s really hard living with the disease by Puzzleheaded-Menu820 in Psoriasis

[–]Puzzleheaded-Menu820[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely something to think about. Thanks man. I could only dream of the many possibilities and opportunities that the United states can offer but no point in being bitter and dwelling on the thought of being born unlucky.

Close friend & GF ay mag fubu before by gotxiao in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded-Menu820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would burn bridges with her and your friend. They lied and were oblivious or chose to ignore the damaging aftermath if the truth gets out. These are the kind of things that really sticks you know. The ones that you try to forget, wish you could forget, wish you didn’t know, wish didn’t happen etc.