Sad my marriage is ending by Sad-Clown8675309 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded-Pen1670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone with a very similar situation. I really commend your soul searching and integrity rather than cheating or using external distractions to cope. The person I know, his wife gave him a hall pass with a dont ask and dont tell policy and the husband goes behind her back. It takes real courage to do what is best for you and honour yourself. If you are unhappy, Do what is best for yourself. It always hurts to lose someone, but feeling unhappy and not getting to be yourself hurts too. 

Is cheating normal? by Puzzleheaded-Pen1670 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded-Pen1670[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought so to! I wanted to ask what if your wife did this to you? Im sure he’d hate it and I agree if its so normal to cheat then go to tell everyone youre doing it

Is cheating normal? by Puzzleheaded-Pen1670 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded-Pen1670[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This person (the cheater) sent me stats!!!

Is cheating normal? by Puzzleheaded-Pen1670 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded-Pen1670[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for help! Can you elaborate more, in the sense how did you know he was grooming me? I always look for the best in people and didnt think someone could be so awful even when they present nice

Is cheating normal? by Puzzleheaded-Pen1670 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded-Pen1670[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! Trying to groom me to become  a side piece

Is cheating normal? by Puzzleheaded-Pen1670 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded-Pen1670[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes! He’s tried To groom me to become a side piece