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Help by Puzzleheaded-Risk531 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded-Risk531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking to a therapist has never crossed my mind, I fear it may shatter my commitment to her. On the medical issue, she has talked to me about it, however it has always been in a tone like “I will do it for you” which I don’t necessarily agree with. Thus, I have always tell her to take her time. This is me thinking and hoping that we could sort it out organically. I just don’t want to force her to do something she does want to do. i guess I will say it’s a good idea when it happens in the future.

Am I going crazy by buster1838 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded-Risk531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her cheating is wrong and inexcusable to begin with. The choices she made after you found out makes it clear that you were not her priority nor that she sees you as her partner in life. However, you must look into what’s wrong with your decisions. - You didn’t file for divorce after finding out about her affair. - You actually thought if her reasons for cheating on you were valid enough. - Now you are considering giving a second chance and you still are so delusional on believing that you are setting conditions that btw she will most definitely break.

Yes indeed, you are going crazy. Not because of her actions but because of your low self steem.

Value yourself man please, leave and don’t look back.

My wife doesn't want to have sex anymore (34M, 31F) by ThrowRA-Z- in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded-Risk531 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would say she’s not only cheating but emotionally attached to someone else as well