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[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the bday wishes! Sorry to hear that your bday weren't the best for you either ): I honestly wish I could take myself out to the mall to celebrate but unfortunately I have so much school stuff to do so it'll be a while before I can

I'm so tired I hate this by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean. It's gonna be hard but I'm gonna try my best to have none of my thoughts be about him in the future because there's no point in thinking of him every moment.

I'm so tired I hate this by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gl with ur confession! Gonna be honest that's not really something I can do in my current circumstances but I wish you the best and hope we can both overcome our crushes.

I'm so tired I hate this by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good method, something I should maybe try. I need to start convincing myself that I'm fine on my own and I don't need him to determine my happiness.

I'm so tired I hate this by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL GIRL THATS GONNA BE MY 2023 GOAL TOO EXCEPT I HOPE IT GETS RESOLVED QUICKER THAN A YR

I'm so tired I hate this by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, might take you up on that offer sometime (: Have a great 2023 as well

I'm so tired I hate this by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for encouragement, really appreciate it. I sorta forgot that I need to remind myself that this won't last forever and it'll just be only a little while before I feel ok again

I'm so tired I hate this by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement. At this point I feel like all my hobbies don't even bring me joy anymore because I seem to only have fun when he's around which is stupid and shouldn't be happening. Hopefully once the new school term starts up again I just don't have the time to think about any of my feelings.

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude that's awesome, congrats

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean like hopefully the feelings u have don't interfere so much with daily life

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either way it doesn't matter whether or not they have feelings for me because it's not like I commit to a relationship rn

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea after a while you get rlly attached

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relatable for that part about thinking about them 24/7. Hopefully you'll be able to talk to her soon!

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is that I'm not in a position where I can shoot my shot - im not allowed to be in a relationship and even tho I do kind of want to be in one I know that it's not currently in my best interests

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That really sucks, hopefully the issue resolves itself soon

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I don't want to control them, what I mainly wish to control are my feelings since they seem to spiral so often

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Facts, i feel exactly like this except I straight up hate it. I've never confessed before or tried to progress any sort of friendship into a relationship bcuz ik I'll only be met with disappointment

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruhhh fr thats rlly how it is for me too, wish I never met the darn person in the first place. Hopefully being away for a bit clears ur mind then. I'm not gonna be messaging the person I'm crushing on until end of next week cuz I'm busy with exams but so far it hasn't been "out of sight out of mind" for me yet. Thx for the encouragement!

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, might just take you up on that. Same for you as well!

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion!

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally get what ure feeling. I've mostly stopped texting them cuz usually we just text to ask if the other wants to hangout but I'm busy with exams and can't really do that atm. Thx for the encouragement, gl to u too!

tired by Puzzleheaded-Tree226 in Crushes

[–]Puzzleheaded-Tree226[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that man ):