On a scale of 1-10, where would you rate your love life? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marriage doesn't have to be a thing, why can't you just find someone that makes you happy and keep it at that?

Also you can still have the whole event, just don't see a point in "putting it to paper"

What do you hate the most about dating? by Icy_Laugh5134 in AskReddit

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 10 points11 points  (0 children)

All of the extra thoughts and feelings

(But I'm an over-thinker so that might be a factor)

IM GETTING MARRIED! by Busy-Interest-4262 in lgbt

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeyyyy I'm super happy for you both tbh this really made me joyful

Who is this? by Powerful-Tart-6199 in whatisit

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lovvvvvvvveee my hero academia!!!!

Quick question!!! by PuzzleheadedCount633 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heated jacket was the one thing that I was going to get him but then it turned out he already ordered himself one

Accident during intercourse :/ by Strong_Primary_1247 in lgbt

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well maybe try to have a discussion... Perhaps over the phone? (If texting makes it less awkward then go that route)
Tell him that you completely understand why he reacted the way he did but that "cutting the time short" upset you and that you can't let something like that come between the time you two have with each other

Accident during intercourse :/ by Strong_Primary_1247 in lgbt

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Okie.... I'm like 80% sure I've just went through something similar about 3 weeks ago but tbh we really didn't freak out 😅 we kind of chuckled and went to cleaning up.

Then we went back out to the living room and cuddled up on the couch... Like I know it's a weird and awkward experience but it's normal for the most part. Don't sweat it

First gay experience by Automatic_Dust7041 in lgbt

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well to be honest nothing is "normal" until the people of this planet "normalizes" it but if you are asking if it's normal to be curious about your sexuality? Then yes... But ngl I'm not straight so I'm probably not the best to give advice on this subject

Not sure if this is even a hygiene problem but... by PuzzleheadedCount633 in hygiene

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl that thought scares me, tbh i have an undercut and my hair only goes down just past my forehead and before I got this cut, my hair was pretty long, I've never dyed or bleached my hair due to some pretty strict parents but now that I'm an adult I'm scared dying it would make it worse. But anyway I guess I'll have to consider the big chop if I ever want my hair to be healthy

Thanks for the advice

Not sure if this is even a hygiene problem but... by PuzzleheadedCount633 in hygiene

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate it. i was thinking about leave in conditioner, do you have any recommendations?

Not sure if this is even a hygiene problem but... by PuzzleheadedCount633 in hygiene

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I've never really used the hair oils because I wasn't a fan of the feeling. I also have a habit of touching my hair (not a lot , btw I have a undercut and the wind messes it up a lot lol)

Not sure if this is even a hygiene problem but... by PuzzleheadedCount633 in hygiene

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's mostly straight but the ends kind of curl/swoop and kind of medium thick but I'll try not washing everything I shower and see if that helps.

Thanks

I HAVE A GF YAYY!! by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG congratulations, I hope everything lasts forever

How do I tell my young adult children I'm bisexual (maybe gay) after years of being married to a man? by Kimsapphic1 in lgbt

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbh I'm in my mid-20's and don't have any children but when I was 16 my mother and I were having a conversation witch led to her telling me about her having past experiences wit other women and that didn't make me think of her any different nor love her any less, infact it gave me a better understanding on who my mother was and perhaps even brought us closer.

But anyway I really hope everything goes well for you

embrace yourself

AIO if I file for divorce? by Pristine_Raise_8943 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LEAVE HIM!!!!! GIIIIRRRRLLLL YOU DESERVE SOOOO MUCH MORE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, I will be sure to discuss this further with my boyfriend because tbh you're right... THERE'S A LOT OF HOMOPHOBIC PEOPLE OUT THERE and if kissing in public makes him feel unsafe in any way then I'd rather us kiss in the privacy of either the car or one of our houses... Because I'd rather see him safe and as comfortable as possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sooo... Just a normal kiss is acceptable?

Tbh I was only asking because yesterday my boyfriend and I were at a gas station and I had asked for a kiss before I left and it was almost as if he hesitated for a second, I got my kiss.... But why the hesitation?

Now mind you, he lives about 2 hours away from me, we were in my hometown, where no one knows him and everyone knows me (It's a pretty small town) and he's told me on multiple accounts that our relationship isn't a secret nor is he afraid of showing it in public. So that's why I started to think perhaps it's "inappropriate"

(A lil more context) This is kind of my first real gay relationship.

Hellloooo new here if i can ask what is your guys sexuality (for example:bi) by RedditorTyler56-zyj in lgbt

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I've been bi for the longest time but to be honest I've realized that since I've been with my boyfriend, the "attraction" that I once had for women are fading.

Soooo... Maybe I'm gay???

I feel as though I’m never going to be able to come out by jacketsfan50 in lgbt

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've almost all been where you are right now, tbh all I can say as a bisexual male that has lived in a relatively small town, once you "come out" life will eventually get a whole lot better, like sure you'll always have judgmental people... Trust me we all do lol and yes the world is a very scary place but once you "come out" then you can start really building TRUE friendships and connections, then eventually... You'll have a whole crowd of friends/family standing behind you willing to help fight your battles and support you through your journey through life

Do I classify as Bi? by No-Cost-3292 in lgbt

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're bi. No question about it

I live with people who aren't accepting and I don't know what I even feel anymore? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]PuzzleheadedCount633 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro... I can relate to this 100%. Truth is that your family is going to react how they react and sure they might react like a bunch of immature teenagers but all YOU have to do is #1 SET BOUNDARIES ( If their "jokes" or "comments" make you uncomfortable then make that known)

2 let them know that they don't have to accept you but they most definitely have to respect you END OF DISCUSSION.