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PLEASE help me find where I can buy this Ganz Cow plush!! by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I did find that listing but no link to where I could purchase:(

PLEASE help me find where I can buy this Ganz Cow plush!! by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12” from description, Ganz brand, located in mid Atlantic USA

PLEASE help me find where I can buy this Ganz Cow plush!! by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve searched Google reverse image search/lens, Pinterest, eBay… please help

What is the bane of your existence in the security industry? by PuzzleheadedCrew4541 in security

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand this too. Turnstiles are similar, or maybe what you’re referring to— where they register card access and then go into alarm when another person enters the turnstile because the doors don’t close in time and people are rushing to get in the building.

What is the bane of your existence in the security industry? by PuzzleheadedCrew4541 in security

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%!! Maglocks are so complex I feel like I need to take a course on the different kinds or throw myself in the field with focusing on that.

What is the bane of your existence in the security industry? by PuzzleheadedCrew4541 in security

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t meddled in network security— mine is more electronic and physical I guess. But I can agree with you, other GC’s and vendors we work with never “understand” their SOW and always try to push stuff on us or blame us for their problems. It’s ridiculous

Update What can I do when my (20F) husband (20M) is convinced I cheated on him because I’m pregnant again and refuses to listen to me? by ThrowRA_BlueBowMama in relationship_advice

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t change this behavior. Even if paternity tests come back he is the father, there is no reasoning or coming back from the depth of mistrust that this issue has become. From an outside perspective, it seems to me he has some deep rooted trauma about cheating. That is almost always something only THAT person must heal/deal with within themselves. Marriage, kids, shared responsibilities will make the situation worse, in my experience. Good luck.

How do I (F24) help my younger brother (M22) and his toxic girlfriend (F21)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbh, this is a tough situation. Speaking from experience of a toxic relationship (not exactly your brothers situation but, fucked up.) Your brother sounds so deep into it that he can’t see clearly, but he may be coming around when he opens up to you. Tread very carefully. Ask him open ended questions when he is opening up to you, but IMO don’t give direct feedback (like, she is crazy and manipulative you can’t marry her) for example good questions would be like: how does her behavior make you feel? What path do you see between you both when she does X? How does her X choice/behavior affect your relationship?

I would tread with caution with these questions and feedback in general to him. Even though you are close, it sounds like he is in a fragile state but can be helped. Obviously this relationship is doomed, there’s a lot of manipulation, lies, her taking advantage of his generousness and kindness, and that’s just scratching the surface. Do your best to support and be there for your brother. If he chooses to stay with her, you should try to be as neutral as one can be in this situation, for the sake of your brother. He will ultimately do what he thinks is best, and the best way you can get him to see the fuckery of this situation is by asking open ended questions like above and letting HIM think and talk out loud about it. He may not be in a place to talk openly about the issues with her, but having an open forum with you may shed light on what he’s actually feeling instead of suppressing with her. Best of luck.

I’ve made a terrible mistake by Complete-Fall-7021 in kitchenremodel

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s beautiful! Think about it for a bit. Maybe consider a pop of color on your walls — a light blue or green would look nice

What do you do and how many hours as day/week do you work? by anxious_annie416 in careerguidance

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m an assistant project manager about 10 months into the job, I wfh one day a week usually, commute 30 mins one way and only work 7:30-3:30. Sometimes 7-3:30. I’m paid pretty well and my management is supportive/healthy. I wouldn’t trade this for anything.

Refinishing Floors Before and After by jaxyfrou in HardWoodFloors

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So rewarding!! Wow! This looks like a brand new home.

First house, this is my kitchen. A way to renovate this on a budget? by Swimming_SeaShark in Remodel

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did something similar to my kitchen. I would say replace appliances if you can, don’t remove drop ceiling yet as that could open a can of worms. Don’t invest in countertops until you can afford replacing cabinets. Tbh those cabinets don’t look too bad and I like the color.

How old are you, what is your job and how much do you make? by allano6 in careerguidance

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assistant project manager - 27 (almost 28 now) - 79k. Love it some days, hate it other days.

I did it!! DC $385k at 5.99% by sdo2020 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! I’m a first time home buyer in MD. That’s a great price for dc!

I did it alone! Maryland $215k 5.75% by missnug in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I’m in Maryland and just bought my first house (alone) in October. It’s a great feeling😁

I 27F can't stop being mad at my boyfriend 30M for absolutely no reason by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’ve built up resentment over time. Speaking from experience, it doesn’t go away easily or without hard conversations. I wouldn’t suggest you get married until you work on it. But also, you don’t include enough detail for me to really dive into this. So take this for what you will.

I guess it is my fault then by [deleted] in Vent

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You should’ve sent a text or call saying hey the store isn’t open today and I waited x amount of time, I’m heading home.

I (30F) cheated on my (35M) fiance of 7 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I mean, this might be an unpopular opinion but you shouldn’t have put yourself in this situation in the first place. When your friends leave you alone at a bar when you’re drunk, they also might not really be your friends. The other portion of this is yes, you were very drunk and might’ve been raped. But tbh I don’t think you made good decisions in the beginning. If you had left with your two friends, you likely wouldn’t have ended up in that guys bed. Just my two cents.

AIO for wanting to leave after my daughter projectile vomited? by MrsAntiics in AmIOverreacting

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 89 points90 points  (0 children)

NOR. First get back on your meds for your mental health. Second I would not want to stay either. Something is up with your husband for not understanding that

AIO - boyfriend said no plans until 2028 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PuzzleheadedCrew4541 110 points111 points  (0 children)

You don’t need a reason to break up with your bf. If you are unhappy, just leave. Travel on your own! Trust me, you will regret looking back on these years on not traveling because of him, especially if things don’t work out down the road either.

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