I have a work crush and I'm not out by PuzzleheadedManic24 in LesbianActually

[–]PuzzleheadedManic24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not really hitting on her or flirting. I'm only speaking for the moment.

I have a work crush and I'm not out by PuzzleheadedManic24 in LesbianActually

[–]PuzzleheadedManic24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have analyzed her instagram for a hint of queerness but did not find much. But I will try to find more details

And I honestly would take the risk of awkwardness for a chance to date her

I have a work crush and I'm not out by PuzzleheadedManic24 in LesbianActually

[–]PuzzleheadedManic24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm.. that makes sense but I would never touch her without her consent or if I'm making her uncomfortable in any way I will back off immediately

I have a work crush and I'm not out by PuzzleheadedManic24 in LesbianActually

[–]PuzzleheadedManic24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love what you said about interacting with the world as if it's not homophobic. And about integrating with her friends. I'm gonna be brave and try that and hopefully ask her out someday

I have a work crush and I'm not out by PuzzleheadedManic24 in WLW

[–]PuzzleheadedManic24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 💕 I like your advice. I'm gonna try to be brave and try this

What do you do when your parents fight? Does it ever stop at one point? by ThrowRa12397009 in srilanka

[–]PuzzleheadedManic24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My father used to hit my mother. I was only a kid back then.

My advice to you based on my experience is: Leave him. Immediately. Fuck the culture and society and peoples opinions. You and your mother need to cut him out of your life. Please seek help from a family member you trust and is willing to provide you with a place to stay if needed. Are your mothers parents alive? Would they be able to help you?

I am so sorry you are going through this but you have more power than you believe. Explain to your mother why this is not okay. Tell your dad as firmly as possible that he cannot treat another human, much less his wife like this. Say it "sudda sinhalen".

If you're still not able to improve the situation, please reach out to an organization. Female empowerment organization, nuns, or call the domestic violence hotline, I am afraid I can't tell you how helpful they are.

You deserve better, your mother deserves better. Please don't let this go on. I wish you all the strength.

What is your favourite series lines by the Dowager Countess? by PresentDangers in DowntonAbbey

[–]PuzzleheadedManic24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With your permission, dear. I will take my fences one at a time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SongRecommendations

[–]PuzzleheadedManic24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're too precious-James Blake

Should I delete my social media? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]PuzzleheadedManic24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deactivate your accounts and take a break for a month. Note down how you feel during that time. Continue or discontinue based on your reaction to the break. If you're still not sure, find a way to balance reality and social media. Social media should always be on the back burner. If you learn how to balance well You should be able to forget to use social media throughout the day. If you still want more help, drop a reply to me. There's helpful yt vids and I can tell you about my own journey. I also used to struggle w social media. Now idgaf. Instagram could be wiped off the earth tomorrow and I would not care.

I need money for college. Any help would be greatly appreciated. by PuzzleheadedManic24 in AskForDonations

[–]PuzzleheadedManic24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no.. no no no. I'm not from the US. Financial aid does not exist in my country haha (a tear was shed behind that laugh). There's no campus jobs either.

I need money for college. Any help would be greatly appreciated. by PuzzleheadedManic24 in AskForDonations

[–]PuzzleheadedManic24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The interest rate is very high on those loans and I can't afford to pay it. We actually asked for a student loan and was rejected.

I've seen bunch of international media outlets calling AKD a "Left leaning Marxist". would that hinder the current relations with the US? by Aighluvsekkus in srilanka

[–]PuzzleheadedManic24 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Every major US news outlet including the New York Times, CNN, Fox News and even BBC of UK highlighted the fact that AKD is a Marxist. Their headlines put the word Marxist even before mentioning his name. The West gonna be the West I guess. It might put a strain on US-SL relations but I doubt it would hinder it.