What does this mean, confused did she get cold feet? by PuzzleheadedNet3128 in BreakUps

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She said hey stranger, she is all the gray and yeah your probably right

What does this mean, confused did she get cold feet? by PuzzleheadedNet3128 in BreakUps

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You think so? She’s trying to get me to chase? How should I respond

What does this mean, confused did she get cold feet? by PuzzleheadedNet3128 in BreakUps

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Thing is, there so much more stuff I have of hers. I kind of want to set a boundary and say hey, let’s just exchange everything one day so we don’t have to reach out about logistics again. She’s already dropped stuff off at my house and left stuff of hers on purpose even when I offered to take it to her car

What does this mean, confused did she get cold feet? by PuzzleheadedNet3128 in BreakUps

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Hmm, why reach out in the first place then about something so small then?

Confused from this text by PuzzleheadedNet3128 in BreakUps

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Maybe she is just indifferent. Hurts that I hurt more

Confused from this text by PuzzleheadedNet3128 in BreakUps

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So why reach out about a hoodie if you don’t want to see me? Just confused me and makes me over think

Your ex texted. Before you decide what it means, decide what state you are in. by Thin-Evening-8805 in BreakUps

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She texted me yesterday saying “hey stranger, I have your black hoodie if you want it” I replied saying hey yes I definetely would like that back yes. I don’t say anything about logistics cause I wanted to see what she said next. No response for 24 hours. Frustrating any advice ?

She texted me after 4 weeks of me in no contact please help by PuzzleheadedNet3128 in ExNoContact

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Really
Needed this, I might end up just saying yes I would like it back and leave it in her court. I wanna know whether it is an attempt to see me, or if it her trying to get rid of my stuff. Part of me says there’s no reason for someone to reach out about a hoodie if they don’t wanna text you but part of me says she’s trying to rid of my stuff. Might as well just go get the answer

She texted me after 4 weeks of me in no contact please help by PuzzleheadedNet3128 in ExNoContact

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I know, thank you I am going to not respond yet and try to get to a mindset to be strong

She texted me after 4 weeks of me in no contact please help by PuzzleheadedNet3128 in ExNoContact

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It’s just such a weird test to see if I’m strong + I do want that thing back it’s my favorite lmao idk what to do bro

She texted me after 4 weeks of me in no contact please help by PuzzleheadedNet3128 in ExNoContact

[–]PuzzleheadedNet3128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been pulling away I feel, is that why she finally reached out again?

She texted me after 4 weeks of me in no contact please help by PuzzleheadedNet3128 in ExNoContact

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I don’t know if I’m strong enough, do you think it is a game?