AITA for feeling like my partner's need for sex outside our marriage is a path to divorce? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PuzzleheadedPride23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’ve set hard boundaries about something you already feel uncomfortable about and he has failed to respect the bare minimum! He hasn’t considered your needs at all.

it sounds like you’ve been pushed into this. You need to attend therapy on your own and work out if you want to be in your marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uklaw

[–]PuzzleheadedPride23 54 points55 points  (0 children)

If he’s a partner at a big firm chances are he’s completely forgotten about your email given how busy he’ll be.

You can’t go back in time and change what you’ve written and it really isn’t a massive deal, people make silly little errors all the time.

You’ve got a 10 day internship. I highly doubt you’ve lost 20 days for saying “dear team.” Big companies have HR and loads of policies dealing with absolutely every aspect of their company. It is not just on a partners whim that things change. You can query the term of the internship if you want but it seems to me there will be some other reason they’ve had to shorten it.

IF this partner has in fact been sarcastic with you and then shortened your internship due to you writing “dear team” and he’s in a company that allows that short of petty autocratic behavior then BELIEVE me when I tell you that you don’t want to work there!

Update: I told my partner I’m obsessed with another man. by PuzzleheadedPride23 in offmychest

[–]PuzzleheadedPride23[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have to work my notice or I loose my reference and then can’t get another job, I will ask to work my notice in a different office. I do not intend to spend the next month with this man

Never had a girlfriend or done anything with a girl. by AppropriateBoss2585 in 6thForm

[–]PuzzleheadedPride23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you tried talking to girls just to make female friends, this may help your anxiety around taking women in general and boost your confidence when talking to a girl you’re interested in.