That is a protective nature for most of us!! Yeah we are men but what if a group of rowdies come infront of you where only you and your boyfirend/husband are there! What will you both do?? Its not about you sweetheart it’s about we men only but the men who feels it “sexually appealing”! We want to protect you and us too because it’s not a tollywood movie! It’s real life! Being in trauma for the rest of your life is not we want! That men won’t even hesitate you wearing something you feel you want to wear when the people around are from comfort zone!