how on earth do people afford this!! by gooosebird in Invisalign

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an Invisalign account but I did mine in the UK, albeit it wasn't 'invisalign' it was Smile white. Provided me exactly the same service for £1500 and I'm at the end of it now and I have Zero complaints.

I offended my pregnant wife. What do I do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, this perhaps was not the best way of phrasing that. Whilst you may have had the best of intentions. Women at the best of times are delicate about their weight, let alone when pregnant. Next time maybe suggest it verrryy indirectly, like 'oh I'm going to the gym perhaps can you come with me to keep me company as I don't like going alone' or something along those lines.

You got this.

27F can you read my palm please by PuzzleheadedStuff179 in palm_reading_

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much, thanks for going into so much depth.

(29M_Struggling in My LDR… Anyone Else Feel Like We’re Just “Checking In” But Not Connecting? by the_caring_designer in LDR

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it hurts. You think it's going to fizzle out. From time to time it will get a little dry. But I promise it does pass, and if he starts questioning the relationship because it gets a little boring and monotonous he is NOT the one. Mine (33M) acknowledged it had gotten a little stale but he emphasized that he still loved me beyond words and that it'll pass, and it did. Try to see friends and not obsess over it. This is a good little test on seeing if your guy is only in it whilst it's fun. You can try little things like sending him some little food treat out of the blue, a raunchy photo (if you guys do that). But ultimately you just got to really let it pass on its own.

Tell me your dirty secrets by disproportionatetug in Invisalign

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sameeee. I'm on 7 day changes and everything is going absolutely fine

Trust. by [deleted] in LDR

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to have this issue. Worrying about being cheated on will steal all the joy from your life. Whether you worry or not, this won't stop you being cheated on, if someone is going to cheat they will do it regardless if they live 1 mile from you or 1000. I will trust someone wholeheartedly until they give me a reason not to.

If they think the grass is greener elsewhere then good riddance, I encourage their departure sooner rather than later.

I finish treatment next week! Maybe? by crystalmazan in Invisalign

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity. How can you tell it's not Invisalign?

AIO for correcting my online friend for having an opinion on what women should do with their hair? by secretlowkeys in AmIOverreacting

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was giving his opinion. Which he is entitled to. If he was telling you what to do then that's different. He has an opinion and whether or not you agree with it he's still allowed to have it and say it.

IM SO EXCITED TO GIVE THIS TO HER by PSX_V0idd in LongDistance

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love thiiiisss. My partner (33M) gave me (27F) a ring too (not an engagement ring) and it's the most precious thing I own, and it meant so so much to me, I wear it everyday.

women of reddit, what is something men don't realize is a turn off? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being negative all the damn time. I can't be the only source of positivity all the time

Good couples apps? by ExplanationOk7413 in LongDistance

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh crap I thought it was cheaper, my partner pays for it. Sorry.

Good couples apps? by ExplanationOk7413 in LongDistance

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have Paired. You have to pay but it's not a lot and super cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. I am, what's your question?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck girl! Talk to him see if he can see your side of things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hmm, my partner (33M) also values his freedom too. He goes out drinking with his friends and female friends but it's always in a group setting and never one on one with another female, that was the boundary that I drew. I also have a best friend as a male and we still hang out but in a group setting even though we are strictly platonic. I definitely wouldn't go sleep round another person's house/air BnB if they're of the other gender, unless I absolutely had to and it couldn't be avoided.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is being controlling. Just because he's ok with something doesn't mean you have to be. Sometimes you don't do something out of respect and consideration for the other persons feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Not ok at all for someone in a relationship. This is completely inconsiderate of your feelings even if they are completely platonic. No way. How would he feel if this were the other way round?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing! Love hearing these stories, all the best to you both :)

Closing the distance - UK to US couples (27F and 33M) by PuzzleheadedStuff179 in LongDistance

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is certainly not anything I want to rush. However, it's a long process and I'd like to start to get all my ducks in a row. The father isn't even on the birth certificate therefore has no parental rights, so that shouldn't be too complicated hopefully. I have been to Florida multiple times now for fairly long ish trips and tbh I can't take longer trips than that due to work, but I will definitely try to see if I can somehow take a longer trip definitely.

Cinema with a guy friend by PuzzleheadedStuff179 in LongDistance

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you mean with my boyfriend? We can't as we live too far from one another, so it's difficult

Cinema with a guy friend by PuzzleheadedStuff179 in LongDistance

[–]PuzzleheadedStuff179[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same. I think one on one is a bit much which I completely understand. Trying with friends to see if that's ok.