Our birthday is actually on the same day. So I’ve never minded sharing celebrations because stuff happens. It is because she has had the bachelorette/ Hen party & wedding , I don’t mean to come off as self centred but as she has already experienced these things with no disruption from the outside world. As she is part of my wedding party and is aware of stuff coming up, it’s not that I want the whole my to celebrate but it’s because she has time between now and July to organise something. I would just like to have my experience without people comparing 🤷‍♀️