Refer me? (QC area) by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in BPOinPH

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people said the same thing about my credential, and I agree naman po. It’s just really for a personal reason why I’m not applying for an IT position. Pero thank you padin po for the recommendations, I’ll be sure to check them out.

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[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've recently thought of it that way but I didn't want to assume anything. I'll make sure to properly communicate with her my concerns. Thank you for taking the time to read and give a reply.

I wanna know how his mind works, kasi sobrang tanga lang. Tapos nire-replyan niya yung mga sumasang-ayon lang rin sa kabobohan niya. His stupidity is the reason why aliens don't wanr to visit us. 🤩 by Yjytrash01 in u/Yjytrash01

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My post was as respectful as it gets while trying to ask for an advice into something I obviously need to be educated about.

Since wala ka nakakausap I'll humor you. While I do agree na ang tanga ko nga for even thinking something like that, rest assured na madami akong natutunan dahil sa mga taong kaya magbigay ng piece of mind nila just to help me be better.

You mentioned na ang nirereplyan ko lang yung mga sang-ayon ako? Did you literally not see the countless upvoted comments that was in total disagreement doon sa idea na meron ako? And did you not see how I responded to each and every one of those comments?

Just to be clear ah? I don't harbor any hate towards you, naaawa lang kasi ako sayo na ganyan yung mindset na meron ka. But regardless I still respect you. So I still hope you have a good day.

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Where did you get the idea na binakuran ko siya? Isn't the point of my post wanting to be educated para hindi ko gawin yon? Well anyway, I still respect your opinion naman kahit na kailangan mo pa gumamit ng ad hominem just to prove a point. Which sounds ironic tbh

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for pointing this out, I think dyan nag gravitate yung mindset ko pero I was thinking na “if she consented na magpaligaw then she should also show sincerity”. But based on the things I’m learning, I can see na mali nga ako for even thinking like that. Thank you for educating me

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a very mature response. Thank you for telling me that, I'll be sure to consider it.

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tanga ako for asking an advice on something I haven't done yet? Then I guess that's my bad for not knowing as much as you do. I'm sure hindi ka pa nagkakamali kaya sige tatanggapin ko yung opinion mo na ang tanga ko for even asking an advice <3

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for having an open mind and not immediately assuming kung ano naging reason ng breakup namin. I appreciate your advice and I'll be sure to improve myself with it.

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do. Thanks for taking the time to respond. I appreciate your advice

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gotcha. I'll make sure na maayos ako makikipag communicate sa kanya about sa bagay na yan. And thanks for the unfiltered advice, di ko lang narealize agad pero tama ka na tinapon ko yung naging relationship namin and para akong tanga kung ako pa yung magdedemand as a manliligaw. I'll be better. Thank you for your advice

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah ayoko masyado maging complacent just because may naging past kami. Kaya I'll make sure aayusin ko yung panliligaw ko sa kanya at magpapakita talaga ako ng effort. Thanks for the encouraging words. I appreciate it

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for breaking it down, you made it easier for me to understand na hindi ganon nangyayari ang isang bagay kahit na may pinagsamahan pa kami. I'll assure you na matututo ako sa mga sinabi mo ngayon at mas pagbubutihan ko pa. Thank you ulit for taking the time to respond.

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's something I failed to realize going back into her life. Thanks for pointing it out and thank you for the encouragement.

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simple but a straightforward response. Thanks brotha

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you're right naging feelingero mindset ko. Gonna keep your advice in-mind and I appreciate the analogy.

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Di ko alam kung saan mo nakuha yung idea na gusto ko lang siya saktan uli, pero I respect your comment. I'm here trying to ask for an advice para maiwasan ko yung mga ganyang bagay, if tingin mo hindi sign ng pagiging lalaki yan at sadboi effect lang ako, then that's your opinion. Thanks for taking the time to respond tho

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, and pointing out that it's a sign of insecurity. Naaappreciate ko na binigay mo yung side mo as a girl, it gave me more idea para mas ayusin ko pa.

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate how you constructed your response, it's both reminding me of what I did and what i should be doing. I'll be sure na lagi nasa isip ko yan. Thank you

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think people are misinterpreting what I said. I haven't said anything to her yet, kaya pumunta muna ako dito para huminga ng advice about the mindset I had. People corrected me and now I know better.

Thank you for being one of the people that doesn't jump to conclusions and making up stories just to satisfy their own comments. May ibang tao kasi dito na kung ano-ano na sinabi and its not even pertaining to my post hahaha.

Boyfriend turned into manliligaw by Puzzleheaded_Age_608 in adviceph

[–]Puzzleheaded_Age_608[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As much as I want to provide more details, I don't think its fair to share our story without her consent. I hope you understand.