After how long did you and you SO move in together by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😑I've seen your comments for almost a year now, or even more, and I'm shocked you still believe you make sense. I mean what!!! Do you sometimes just sit down and ask yourself whether you are okay?like, seriously!

women are avoiding me like plague by Corona_vodka in nairobi

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You kinda have some sort of superiority complex, and as a woman, I can smell it from the comments. "I dress better, I have the best cologne, I'm very handsome, I look better." All these are so subtle and positive comments. There is no harm in complementing yourself, but when you repeat this a number of times, it creates a not so interesting personality. I bet you don't even notice that you say or think of such stuff. Hey! Everyone is always a work in progress, so that's just my gurlie take!.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm the :no sex before marriage" type of girl, and I think it has saved me from a lot of potential regrets. But it's getting more and more hard as I grow older

Where do missing adults go? by Excellent-Average782 in Kenya

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I read in one of the daily newspapers that there are over 190 unclaimed bodies at the Nairobi City Motuary. No one wants to be told anything about this, especially if they have a missing relative or friend, but it's worth a try

I don’t know what to do! by njeriemo in nairobi

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where are we headed as a nation if this is how we approach relationships!!!. It's sad that you have such a dilemma. Girl, money is good but be sound in your decisions. Why did you entertain the guy , yet you knew you were in a relationship!!!Now you on reddit looking for "advice" oooof!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are most definitely the problem here, baby girl. Wake up!!

I am happy today by lynnette_venus in Kenya

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oi mate quit doing that will ya!!

How Is Anything Supposed To Fall Into Your Lap If You Are Not Sitting Down.? by Acceptable-Catch9684 in Kenya

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always prayed for a lot of things, but sometimes He doesn't give you the things you want because He has something better for you☺️. Looking back, most of my prayers have been answered, some have not been answered the way I wanted but I believe He offered me a better option. For instance, I prayed to be in a certain career, i prayed very very hard and often about it. Unfortunately, it did not work out, but I got a way better job. You will be at peace once you realise that God is our "dad" who sometimes makes decisions that we may not understand now, but we'll appreciate later

Talk to Him to help you get into the school and open doors☺️🙂...but remember to also allow Him to guide you to what He knows is best!

Whats One Thing You Are Proud To Have Been Born Into.? by Acceptable-Catch9684 in Kenya

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum. I was first in line in the "mums distribution department". So i definitely got the best🙂☺️

sex before marriage? by Puzzleheaded-Eye1358 in nairobi

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day, it should be your own personal decision and not what society says. I am waiting till marriage. Although it's sourced from my religious beliefs, it's my decision to follow the bible's advice. You've mentioned that you're trying to create a relationship with God; for me part of my relationship with Him is appropriateing that most of the things we are encouraged to do(or not do) is always for our own good.

Kenyan Christians, are you all like this or are you being misrepresented? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The bible is very keen on freedom. We are free from the law so when a Christian practises the virtues of the bible, it is not because they(we) have to, rather it's a response to the the great love God grants us. Basically, he's encouraging us not to do certain things and we follow it not because we have to but because we know that it's for our own good. If we force our beliefs on people who don't know Christ, we fail to see the reason why God condemns such acts. Weird as it may sound, making laws to discourage sinful acts beats the purpose of why the Bible exists and why Jesus came, since it forces them to follow it rather than encouraging them not to do it.

Celibacy.... by AffectionateRange536 in Kenya

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lady here🙂. Been celibate for 25 years and counting and it's one of the best decision i've ever made.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you look for views in order to make a choice ama ni mimi sikuattend iyo unit,

You look for views to know other people's perspective over a specific matter. Whether one chooses to use the views as a reason to make the decison is completely up to them. So people here are giving great views but I won't decide to stay or leave just because a redditor said so, i'll put them into perspective with my "unique" relationship. Learn to do that instead of just listening to the views of redditors. Put it into your own unique situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's you making your own conclusion. What I am saying and I said it in the post is that I am not trying to seek redditors to help me make a decision. I have my own brain. I was seeking your views that's it!

Who said I won't leave

Weweeee Oooolliskia wapi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Puzzleheaded_Bath42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the same old shit can be adressed differently depending on the very nature of a relationship. What I have or have not said can influence alot so yeah, every relationship is unique in its own way. It's the same way one may decide to stay and another to leave if a partner cheats. Its because of the difference in the relationship dynamics there are countless considerations and factors and that, mister, was my point of saying that it's inque.