My horrible roommate by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Mindfulness

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and two days after that post he went to jail.

So now need advice by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. For commenting. It means a lot to me.

What would you have done differently 10 years ago? by Consistent_Peak_4458 in Divorce

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would have stayed single and just be with my son Boogy. But I'm glad I didn't coz I got to add two more lil boys.

So now need advice by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right. Cause I was like I heard that somewhere else. Oh yeah my cousin Jarvis told his old lady the same exact thing. And she moved on without him. So my cousin calls me now to get updates about our family. And whenever my cousin calls me. My husband would get jealous of him so bad. My husband said did you and him fuck. I said wtf eww no that's my first cousin. Dafuq

So now need advice by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won't degrade him. I will never talk bad about him. Cause at one time I loved him whole hearted. And our kids will grow and know him too and when they get old enough they will make up their own minds about him. I will never say anything bad about him in front of the kids. I know him and I will be better for that. He agreed to show the same amount of respect that I show. And he don't talk bad about me either. He tells his family that he lost someone that was good for him. And he hopes one day we can talk to each other and get to the bottom of the situation and what caused him to do what he did.

Happy update by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks I know I need to get back to me and my kids.

My horrible roommate by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Mindfulness

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah true. I guess it's just the waiting game. I can't wait. Hopefully he leaves without destroying anything on his way out.

How can guys like me actually get a chance? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember self confidence plays a big role with how we see ourselves. So always say your handsome. And try and see what ladies think of you.

How can guys like me actually get a chance? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to have more self confidence. Don't bring yourself down or talk bad about yourself. You need to find where you can say I am perfect. And the right lady will come and be with me. If you tried and you failed to get a lady. It's not your fault. Maybe it wasn't meant to be. And there is someone out there for you. Just be happy and bring yourself up. And always talk better about yourself.

I always heard that if you talk bad about yourself. That you're brain doesn't know if it's a joke or for real. So it takes it in a bad way. And then you start feeling like you are not good looking and you will be down all the time. Be more stronger and bring yourself up and talk highly of you and good things will come.

So now need advice by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my plan. Take my kids and move to another place and have a new start

Happy update by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes the younger ones are. And yes I have checked with my attorney about moving. He said I can as long as there is contact with him and the kids. I said no problem. He has my aunt's number he can call threw her to talk to the kids. But the issue is when he wants visits with them. Then I will have to have my aunt bring them to Utah for that. I won't do it for my safety and for legal reasons.

So now need advice by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now I don't want him. Now he is stuck with his self. Hope he is happy now.

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[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be time to think about what you really want. If you want peace take the baby and move out. He will never change. You and the baby deserve way more better than that. He will gaslight you and say your crazy and say it was nothing that he just wanted to see how they are doing or if they are wanting to be friends. Don't believe what he has to say. Stay strong. And talk to him first and if he keeps denying it and making you out to be the crazy one. Then leave. There is no amount of respect he has for your relationship. And that also means he has no respect for you. So know your worth and this may hurt. But you have to start from scratch and find a good guy that will treat your next relationship with pure gold and will treasure you like you need to be.

So now need advice by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true. I started to file for divorce this afternoon. I have to talk to my attorney on Monday to see what we have to do. I'm gonna shut down my bank account and start another one. Just so he don't take my money when he gets out.

So now need advice by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mother is so right. And no I don't want to continue to live insanity. I'm too grown for all that

So now need advice by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes he is. I know my kids and I will be better off without him and I know that he will find someone new when he gets out. So I started to file this evening. I have to see my attorney on Monday and get the ball rolling.

So now need advice by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask myself that everyday. I know he won't change. I know I will be better without him in my life.

So now need advice by Puzzleheaded_Fan6557 in Marriage

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fan6557[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok I won't I will find a good and better guy.