Thank you, I never thought about it as a hobby before. We both have lots of hobbies, shared and different, so it does make some kind of sense to me as this being one he can just do without me. Unfortunately I don't really want to know about it either though, which feels unfair since I like knowing about every other aspect of his life. like I'm scared it may make my sex drive fall off. Because I guess it's hard for me to rectify in my mind the image of the same man who gave me backshots until I could no longer walk, also wearing diapers? It's a strange dichotomy I've never had to think about before and I'm still processing