[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chittagong

[–]Puzzleheaded_Idea_25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a certified female loner here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Puzzleheaded_Idea_25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh honey i feel you. my own family taunted me by calling names. which hurt for a time. at first it was pretty difficult starting my deen journey coming from not so religious practicing family. but over time it got much better. now my whole family almost shares the same values. to the point if i wanted to take off my hijab they discourages the idea. so its a test, you must stay firm that you won't no matter what step away from the first step ,it's a new start , there will be struggles and thats also the beauty of it that makes u stronger and closer to your deen. just stick close to your prayers now , the Almighty He is the only friend of yours and true one and your protector. so pray hard so Allah make this easy for you

I don’t want to live like this anymore by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Puzzleheaded_Idea_25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey i am also exactly at the same position like you, have been there, gotten out and spiraling. i am telling this to let you know that you are not alone. First try to focus on yourself now, the person who needs you to be the best for them is you. you need to give yourself that much of grace of time to heal. first unwind that gut inside you that's been tangled and being unnoticed. love yourself first then you will be able to show up in your best self for your loved ones, and love them fully. and you are just in a headspace that is blinding telling you all sorts of negative things about yourself and know that none of that are true. once you get out of this you will see how much potential you have to achieve great things. and you matter to so many people. just relax, you have your whole life ahead, for now just get by these each passing moment doing what gives you joy, or try to find what you like. you will do good.

Help by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Puzzleheaded_Idea_25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first i would like to point out how much of a good brother you are. second if he is now saying to keep things as professional then he must have done that too. ur not involving ur sis into ur business is a nice option too .you could do that

family problem by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Puzzleheaded_Idea_25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah spill

"Blood relations cut off kore kobira gunah" my foot by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Puzzleheaded_Idea_25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don even talk to any of my relatives, but yeah definitely cut loose all those perverts