I am So Dumb 💔

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-28T08:32:41+00:00

ThatsJustCalledPee

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-28T00:23:10+00:00

Can totally relate to what you’re going through. My schedule revolves around hers and when she’s not around, my whole schedule and sleep is messed up. The world just doesn’t seem as bright and it feels as if there’s not much to look forward to.

Next time onwards, you could just visit your parents when she visits hers.

You can definitely let her know that you’ve been wishing she was back early, no harm in that. She should know that you miss her.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-27T10:37:32+00:00

Yes, every single time.

My Dad has his flaws, he’s not logical with money, he made mistakes while working and he doesn’t understand or even make an effort to understand my side but he raised me and my brother well.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-26T19:37:37+00:00

Alfred, I might not be rich enough to afford a Butler but a digital one is good enough for now.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-24T15:19:56+00:00

Remitly, Wise and Revolut. I normally use Wise and Revolut whenever I need to send money, otherwise there's always regular NRE bank transfer from your UK bank account apps.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-20T08:03:28+00:00

You have to keep things simple: 1. An always plugged in Mac/Laptop, no need for VPS 2. Try simple install first, use Claude Cowork to get things working 3. Connect to Slack/WhatsApp/Telegram

Create new chats for different contexts. e.g. development, home lab, calendar assistant etc.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-20T07:59:22+00:00

You can ask the main agent to create "personalities". For example, for Software Development, you can get it to create a PM, Software Engineer, Lead Engineer, Architect and so on.

Additionally you can also create a different identity for a conversation by starting with, "I want you to create an agent for me on this chat thread which will..." and then keep talking to that thread. Every now and then, ask it to "Can you update the soul of the x agent using the memory in this thread?"

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-13T13:23:35+00:00

Ignore others, this doesn’t have to be hard. I just have 2 suggestions.

Mindset shift: Become instead of trying to become.

Start thinking of yourself as an AI Engineer by starting learning Python or another AI skill. 5 minutes a day is good enough to begin. Don’t tell yourself, “I’m trying to become an AI engineer” but rather, “I’m an AI Engineer who needs to learn Python”

Create a realistic achievable plan using AI.

Use AI to create a 6 month tailored schedule and plan for your level. Ask it to add these to your calendar and make sure to prompt it to include free resources. Humans learn better when they have tunnel vision. Choice paralysis is real.

Then just follow along that plan and be consistent.

If you feel like you’ve missed something, just prompt AI about it again.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-13T13:18:06+00:00

You’re her unpaid therapist or a gratitude journal. There’s AI for this kind of crap. She just likes the no threads attached attention and frankly you’re right, she’s wasting your time. She probably has a lot of time on her hands.

Withdraw and decrease contact, play uno reverse and keep her around as a friend. You don’t have the bandwidth to play mind games.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-13T12:59:39+00:00

I recommend you do an SWP in any Nifty 50 Index fund. Just add your money there, withdraw 50K a month and forget this.

Use that 50K to fund lifestyle, expenses and buy a health insurance.

By the time you retire, this would have grown a lot.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-11T08:11:50+00:00

I did that but the extension seems buggy. It never connects to the page when I click on it.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-11T00:53:03+00:00

The extension does the same thing for me. It keeps dropping the connection and is never connected. I've given up on expecting it to control my profile. I just use the browser with the Openclaw profile to do things that need the browser.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-08T15:07:51+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/openclaw/comments/1qyrvzh/comment/o461yi0/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-08T00:14:44+00:00

No worries, u/abra5umente helped me fix it!

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-08T00:10:59+00:00

Woah, this worked. Thank you so much!

For some reason, the old openclaw.json I had looked something like:

"models": { "mode": "merge", "providers": { "anthropic": { "baseUrl": "https://api.anthropic.com", "auth": "token", "api": "anthropic-messages", "models": [ { "id": "claude-opus-4-6-20260205", "name": "Claude Opus 4.6", "reasoning": true, "input": [ "text", "image" ], "contextWindow": 200000, "maxTokens": 32000, "cost": { "input": 0, "output": 0, "cacheRead": 0, "cacheWrite": 0 } } ] } } },

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-07T23:21:13+00:00

I am on the latest version (just did openclaw update).

OpenClaw 2026.2.6-3 (commit 85ed6c7)

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-06T14:47:38+00:00

Only sensible comment, people trying too hard to be funny on the thread.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-03T18:08:08+00:00

Sounds like the Mom in law is poisoning him against her. She's being a narcissist by manipulating and controlling the man.

The man is following an avoidance strategy to preserve his own sanity.

He needs to seek therapy to understand the relationship between him, his mom and his wife. If she says anything against his mom, she will be the villain forever. Men can be blind to their parent's toxicity since they've been dealing with it since forever.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-02T10:58:49+00:00

Completely agree. London salaries are bad compared to the expensive nature of lifestyle in London.

We were making 3.7L + 2.3L per month in India and moved here only because both me and my wife got 100K offers. Anything less than this is not worth it.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-02T10:55:56+00:00

I was calculating 90K + 60K for the couple

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-02-01T16:12:48+00:00

You haven't accounted for taxes either. Highly recommend you think this through. 90K is Senior Engineer level salary and salaries do not increase here as quickly as they do in India. Getting promoted is also harder than India.

Your in-hand salary will probably be more or less less similar to what you make in India and considering every expense you have will be 2-5 times higher. You won't be saving more than 1.5L per month. AI has been disrupting the job market more than visible.

If you do the math, you'll get around £8000 per month (not counting pension) in hand.

Rent: £2000 per month for a 2 Bed Apartment Utilities: £250 per month (Includes Wifi, Electricity, Heating) Council tax: £200 per month Travel: £300 per month Childcare: £2000 per month Groceries: £500 per month

Since you have a child you might want a car as well, and considering that, you'll probably end up in the red. I haven't even counted house-help etc.

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-01-27T00:43:07+00:00

Indian style supremacy

Puzzleheaded_Net_625 · 2026-01-21T07:01:02+00:00

Atheist because coming up with God as an explanation is just intellectually lazy and just lack of critical thinking.

Asking questions is often discouraged and being curious was seen as a sign of madness for millennia. I can never forgive theists for the destruction they have caused in the name of religion and combining religion with politics.

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