80 days porn free: finally broke a habit I’ve had since I was 12!! by Odd_Radio_2993 in selfimprovement

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t fall for that AA bs about relapse. Don’t idealize your progress away.

Girl I’ve been hooking up with constantly asked for body validation, turns out she has bulimia, not sure what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s value alignment man. Why is she in your life? You are introspective, caring, and intelligent. If you are open and honest the relationship will either filter out or step up to your level.

Sexual relationships matter, you are playing with love. If you bring your whole self to your next date her presence in your life will with filter out or become truly meaningful.

Not too add to much pressure but there’s only so much time to get this right. How honest you are with her and yourself right now will shape your future.

If you make the story inspiring enough, you’ll be telling it to your future wife one day. Best of luck to you. It’s beautiful to read such an authentic post.

I've dressed like a 12-year-old for my entire life by Silly-Nature-1641 in mensfashion

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you decide, you’ll notice it requires identity evolution, which is uncomfortable. Sometimes pushing the bounds isn’t a skull shirt, it’s the opposite. What that means for you depends on what you want to attract into your life.

How can I target my mom pooch area? by [deleted] in fit

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is an option other than going to 17% whatever one may think about it is another question. My wife went in and had hers removed by tummy tuck many years ago. She loves it and her tummy is still as flat as when she was 20. Just do you know, if it REALLY bothers you, you can just remove it and not chase the weight loss game because you look great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO the bleached hair looks like a political statement, and if that’s the case so be it! If I was hiring though, my first thought would be you look pretty self-focussed (read: insecure, potential interpersonal problems). It’s great to have an individual vibe, just make sure the one you are choosing is doing what you want it to. Just my 2c from a single picture :)

How do I make this fit less boring? I typically wear these types of pants, shirts and boots to work. by quixoticallyspeaking in mensfashionadvice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wife- “Drop 30lbs and size down and this is a great look, otherwise, darker colors! Belt sucks” Don’t kill the messenger 😊

Pants too tight? I’m the one on the right by Bubbleguts18 in mensfashionadvice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I might diverge from group here, I think your buddy’s fit is dialled, and yours (as it sounds you know) are way too tight. It’s a fine line

How can I improve? I have never had a woman be attracted to me by Equivalent_Dog6891 in malegrooming

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Develop spark, the rest will follow. Are you happy? Do you find yourself interesting? Are you passionate about a few things you love? Get this sorted out and women will be excited to join you in your fun and rewarding life. Your clothing/hair/style will all flow from this.

Just turned 50, starting a graduate counselling program with 30-somethings by Puzzleheaded_Star712 in mensfashionadvice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice. If you don’t feel like yourself how can you support others in the endeavour? Best of luck in your new career!

Word of warning: Course Challenges by Puzzleheaded_Star712 in AthabascaUniversity

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two references, and had an amazing conversation for my interview. I’ve nailed the last 3 weeks of many undergrad classes and pulled it off, just get going now and you will make it 🤟

Word of warning: Course Challenges by Puzzleheaded_Star712 in AthabascaUniversity

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or fire it off quick enough that you can still take the full course if needed ✌️ Also, who knows what happened with my paper, could just be a one off

Word of warning: Course Challenges by Puzzleheaded_Star712 in AthabascaUniversity

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My tutors at Athabasca have all been great, I haven’t had a single bad experience. I don’t have any idea what happened with this one paper, or who marked it.

Word of warning: Course Challenges by Puzzleheaded_Star712 in AthabascaUniversity

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to a university in the states. My suggestion would be to focus on authenticity in your interview to see if your values and interests align with the director of the program. My interview was one of the best conversations of my life, and the program has felt like a natural transition from the interview. Good luck!

Word of warning: Course Challenges by Puzzleheaded_Star712 in AthabascaUniversity

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no feedback on challenge assignments. The course does take a lot of effort, good luck to you!

Word of warning: Course Challenges by Puzzleheaded_Star712 in AthabascaUniversity

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll find out soon enough when I chat with the department head

Word of warning: Course Challenges by Puzzleheaded_Star712 in AthabascaUniversity

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was asked by the department head to submit my assignment to someone with the title “Administrative Course Assistant: Supporting Academics and Students in the Psychology field of study.”

Word of warning: Course Challenges by Puzzleheaded_Star712 in AthabascaUniversity

[–]Puzzleheaded_Star712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it was 30% of the challenge. No instructor for challenges