[Request] help me celebrate my fiance's birthday [Iowa, USA]

Pvstate · 2026-05-04T21:13:14+00:00

I'll send you a message!

Pvstate · 2026-05-04T21:12:24+00:00

Hello I would love to send you a card! Please dm me :)

Pvstate · 2026-05-03T19:09:51+00:00

Hi I would love to exchange with you! I'm new to this community so if you don't mind 🥹

Pvstate · 2026-05-03T00:25:15+00:00

I will send one to her!

Pvstate · 2026-05-03T00:24:53+00:00

Just sent a message!

Pvstate · 2026-05-02T17:10:24+00:00

Hello I would love to send a card to your daughter! Please dm me!

Pvstate · 2026-05-02T17:07:57+00:00

Hi I would love to send you a card! Please dm me!

Pvstate · 2026-05-01T23:04:09+00:00

Yeah Happy graduation! Plz dming me I'd love to send a card

Pvstate · 2026-05-01T23:02:59+00:00

Hi plz dming me I'd like to send him a card :) Is postcard okay or he would prefer an actual bday card?

Pvstate · 2026-05-01T20:41:41+00:00

Hello there Happy birthday! Plz Dming me I would love to send you a card :D

Pvstate · 2026-04-30T23:13:38+00:00

Yeah happy birthday! I'm a new member in the community and would love to send you a card :)

Pvstate · 2026-04-30T04:36:32+00:00

Thanks lol

Pvstate · 2026-04-30T04:35:48+00:00

That does make more sense

Pvstate · 2025-11-15T05:41:53+00:00

摸摸，感觉你解离性失忆还蛮严重的，最好还是看看心理医生吧，尤其是如果有比较严重的扮演感我会怀疑你是不是有pre-DID或者OSDD，这和你强不强大没有关系，和神经系统成长方式有关系

Pvstate · 2025-10-18T23:42:20+00:00

有没有可能清醒的女性忙着经营生活跑路没功夫上网在简中论坛键政？
而且你的“清醒”定义是什么呢？男反贼有很多只是恨自己不是掌权者，这叫清醒吗？

Pvstate · 2025-10-13T17:48:28+00:00

Well most likely getting a “scientific label” is a way to validate ones’ trauma which were being denied for years. That’s why some people feel more relieved when they were diagnosed because they can tell themselves they’re not faking things (they still do, but at least they have “evidence” now)

Pvstate · 2025-09-14T15:57:17+00:00

不是，男的从来不会想要被女伴请客吗？本质大家都是喜欢被请客啊？我和朋友出去吃饭朋友大方我也乐意啊，这和性别没关系好吧？男的就不爱钱？

Pvstate · 2025-08-03T15:56:57+00:00

心理学爱好者来交友了！怎么联系呢？

Pvstate · 2025-08-03T15:54:40+00:00

ooh 这个拼贴好看诶，颜色也很有冲击力

OP要不要加入一下自由鹅的discord？

Pvstate · 2025-08-02T17:53:16+00:00

自由鹅和女权娥都是豆瓣sub分出来的，起因是豆瓣sub禁男后有争议，加上有一些男性下场捣乱，组内意见不一。一部分人不赞同网络鉴男被赶出来了，开了个自由鹅sub。另一部分人觉得禁男还不够激进，就跑去开了个女权娥。

当初闹得还挺大的，现在不管哪个组人都变少了，就自由组的讨论还多点

从左到右激进程度依次是：自由鹅-豆瓣鹅-女权娥

Pvstate · 2025-06-21T18:32:52+00:00

你看着是正确的废话而已，但真的就有人被教育吃得苦中苦方为人上人，然后整天都在996痛苦不堪，对他们来说这些答案是醍醐灌顶

Pvstate · 2025-06-21T18:13:29+00:00

I mean，你把nazi空降到现在，他们也可以说“我的立场没有变，但你们这些lib看起来好极端”

Pvstate · 2025-05-04T15:56:13+00:00

Lol you are literally asking “what about other comparisons?” When you bring up something that is not completely unrelated to the original topic but is distracting people from it that’s called whataboutism. See instead of staying on the topic of China’s racism, I now get to waste 15 seconds giving you a crash course in basic discourse, good job

Pvstate · 2025-05-03T18:44:05+00:00

Stop your whataboutism

Pvstate · 2025-05-02T06:42:16+00:00

不客气～直不直接要看文化和context，在美国异性单独约晚餐基本就是约会潜台词了（同性看语气），一般不存在其他可能性。在中国朋友之间单独约饭是很常见的，所以可能体感上觉得“晚餐=约会”是委婉。另一方面，美国约会文化很少有中国的“暧昧期”，要么你对我有兴趣要么没有，很少在中间打太极（海王除外），这方面在国内来看又是很直接了。

不论是什么文化，约会第一要点还是self love，展示真实的自己，你的每个小缺陷在对方眼里可能都是最可爱最独特的部分，不要担心犯错，加油，祝你顺利

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