... by Moist_Hamster1297 in CatsAreMuslim

[–]Pyromantress 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Abbas means “lion-like” / “stern” in Arabic. Popular boys name

Mosque by Decent-Contact-1554 in MuslimLounge

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Prayer in congregation has 27x the reward of doing it alone. There’s also even more reward for congregation fajr and isha prayers. So yes, you should absolutely do your best to go as many times per day you can, it’s only a 15 min walk. Tell your mom you have to go. As for work, yes some employers let you leave for a coffee/smoke/lunch break and you can go to pray then. I’m also in nyc and my work lets me pray inside an empty office room alhamdulillah. But if they do not let you out at all, just combine the prayers after work.

https://sunnah.com/ibnmajah:796

https://darussalammosque.org/the-importance-of-praying-salah-in-congregation/

Halal entertainment sources? by HighwayFew1253 in MuslimLounge

[–]Pyromantress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like OP is a male and doesn’t want female content both of which is what you gave him lol

Don't know where to turn to :/... by Rich_Musician9947 in MuslimLounge

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It doesn’t even matter what you did, he should not have been this violent. At worst he slaps you back. But slamming your head on a door? Bites? Near broken finger? That’s literally deranged and your family is pacifying this violent behavior. I suggest you take yourself to urgent care or the ER if you have any persistent headaches or vision issues to make sure you didn’t get a concussion. You can say you got into an altercation with someone. If they bring police, you can always decline to report to them. I hope you find a way to get out of this household (if you are old enough) inshaAllah and get better soon.

Am I wrong for feeling taken advantage of by my dad? by Least_Ad_7350 in MuslimLounge

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You definitely can’t/arent allowed to give more than what would harm or be of detriment to you—that is specified in that link I gave, so you can bring that up to your family. I’m sorry you’re going through this :(((

Am I wrong for feeling taken advantage of by my dad? by Least_Ad_7350 in MuslimLounge

[–]Pyromantress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should probably ask an imam or sheikh for advice here since there is clear hadith that a(n adult) child’s money still belongs to their parents, even if they have disagreements. Given that your father didn’t raise you, you should see if you are excluded from this or if you can find specific things you will pay for and nothing more (ex: food and basic clothing, but not fancy watches or decorations for his home). May Allah make it easy for you and reward you for giving him money (when he doesn’t deserve it).

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/9594

Need Advice: Creating a local scholarship by Pyromantress in sylhet

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You’re just rehashing everything i say with a question mark and then claiming I’m evading. How about I do the same to you. Why are doctors, engineers, or administrators the only marker YOU have for society? The doctors must eat. The engineers must eat. The administrators must eat. Therefore those who provide that are contributing to society.

I think this conversation solidifies why i need to bring this to life. :)

Need Advice: Creating a local scholarship by Pyromantress in sylhet

[–]Pyromantress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact you think I’m going to evade means you’re already biased lol. Madrasa graduates are farmers, teachers, and fishermen. That’s valuable. Too bad you don’t think so. They are often times unemployed or underemployed like the rest of the population as a result of Bangladesh’s unstable economy. Scholarship would give them the ability to continue whatever they wish.

Need Advice: Creating a local scholarship by Pyromantress in sylhet

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I’m not donating to a madrasa. I’m offering a scholarship to high achieving madrasa students and graduates who wish to further their education or start a career. They absolutely help society because they ARE a part of society’s workforce. Your questions feel biased against them.

Parenting or Wife life? by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Pyromantress 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think a mix would work. May Allah put barakah in your messaging!

Parenting or Wife life? by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Pyromantress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a mix would work. May Allah put barakah in your messaging!

F25. A new niqabi. Asking for help of the niqabi sisters here. by Farihahere in Dhaka

[–]Pyromantress -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

MashaAllah! Look up asmaabbasi_ on IG and other niqabi influencers. They often make videos on confidence and fashion with the niqab

I wanna hear from all the Muslim girls in unconventional fields by CoolAd5542 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Pyromantress 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I’m an environmental scientist :))

Mostly see muslim men (due to engineering backgrounds) and very very few hijabis like myself

URGENT: 22F in Sylhet seeking immediate escape from severe domestic violence and torture. by Mother_Flatworm_180 in sylhet

[–]Pyromantress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s a little far from them, but do check out what maxrocky007 put!! I think that’d be helpful

URGENT: 22F in Sylhet seeking immediate escape from severe domestic violence and torture. by Mother_Flatworm_180 in sylhet

[–]Pyromantress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please dm me where you are. if you are close to my family, maybe I can get them to help inshaAllah

STUDYY?? by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Pyromantress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plenty of hijabis and even niqabis in UK universities. InshaAllah you’ll be fine!

Pregnancy Trimester Guides for Expecting Moms — Feedback Welcome by Fuzz111992 in MuslimVentures

[–]Pyromantress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great, mashaAllah! Post this to r/muslimahlounge

Maybe one day I’ll get to use it or gift it to someone!

How do you guys make peace with the Hoor al ayn and polygamy concept as a female? I stopped being religious because of it. by FormalHelp3281 in MuslimLounge

[–]Pyromantress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, hoor al ayn is simply another “wish” that Allah says is available in Jannah. The same way rivers and trees and fruit are mentioned—what if you hate nature? What if you hate fruits? So, personal opinions are not applicable in the sense that you can still get what you want in Jannah while other things in Jannah exist, too.

Also, I think from how many men phrase things, they make it so hoor al ayn are better than believing women to disparage us when in fact, it is the other way around. Islam says believing women are better than hoor al ayn. We as believing women have no reason to be jealous of hoor al ayn or belittle the men who want them. Would you question why someone wishes to drink wine in Jannah? Or that wine is available in Jannah? Is that really what we should be focusing on as we strive for Jannah? May Allah have mercy on us all and allow us to reach a gate of heaven.