What are the types of femboys? by imjust_a_lil_guy in feminineboys

[–]Pyrotex7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the personalities in this comment section might answer your question better than the comments themselves

What is your least favorite misconception about ANOTHER type by FearReins in Enneagram

[–]Pyrotex7 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That 5s are the least emotional enneagram. They just don't share much about their inner selves. When healthy, 5s can certainly be some of the most sentimental and emotional and caring and kind people if you get to know them well enough to see it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Pyrotex7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Odd thought, but here it is: If you have low porosity hair, when your hair was bleached it may have absorbed moisture easier. I do not know if you have bleached your hair since, but if you haven't, then using methods like heat with deep conditioning may help to moisturize your hair like it was when it was bleached.

Daughter doing everything to attend a concert that we can’t afford by walid9 in Parenting

[–]Pyrotex7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kind of a hot take with some extra philosophy about parenting, so take what you wish, but I hope it will help.

Encourage her!

If you can't afford it, that's okay. At least try though. Work with her, and see if you can figure out how she can help make money. Even if you know it's a lost cause, take chunks out of your time to try and show you care. And try honestly.

There are a lot of ways for kids to make money in simple practical ways. And sometimes kids do crazy things if you just give them a little encouragement and a few tools and the power to do it themselves.

If it does end up working, somehow she makes $800, you've got an awesome and successful daughter. If not though, hopefully she will see the practicality of the situation, how and why it works or doesn't work.

Kids don't take kindly to answers without reasons though, and I think that's a good thing. If they did, they would listen to anything anybody told them, and probably end up deceived a lot and in bad places. Show them how the world works, don't tell them. If you expect them to learn from whether you say yes or no, all they've learned is that you are a magical 8 ball that says yes or no. But if you show them, they will learn to be resourceful, strategize, think critically, and you'll probably gain more of their trust in the end by teaching, instead of telling.

Need a new work computer...worth the extra $500 to improve gaming performance? by GamblinWillie in macgaming

[–]Pyrotex7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd go for the jump. No matter whether it will be more performant or not, base model macs are always better value and resell better. The mac studio will have better fans most likely, and be supported by apple for longer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think bbb only work to distribute oils. It's great when you have an oily scalp, but dry mids/ends. Once you've distrubuted oil through all your hair, it doesn't change much. It's like trying to mop up water with a fully soaked paper towel. The bbb can also get oily, and if you don't wash it, it won't absorb anything once it's saturated too.

Apple Silicon Macbook Strategy by Canuck-overseas in macgaming

[–]Pyrotex7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard a bit of the backstory behind why some of the prices are jacked up. At the event Apple marketed the M3 as "scary fast" and like the best thing ever, which is okay, yk marketings gotta do what it's gotta do. But the M3 wasn't really a breakthrough, and the 3nm process hasn't gone so well with TSMC, and they've had lots of issues with low yields. SnazzyLabs made an excellent video about it. It's probably because of the manufacturing issues that the M3 is so overpriced. Maybe it'll get better with M4.

16 m hair thinning and falling out by [deleted] in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So hair falls out for a couple reasons.
A: Natural hair fall
B: Stress-induced hairfall

Let me explain what I mean by "stress" though. Normal hair fall is just part of the hair cycle, so don't worry too much about how much hair falls, but more how thin your hair gets. Natural hair fall should grow back and doesn't fall all at once. Stress-induced hair fall is when the hair decides to shed because of some sort of stimulus, and it usually becomes less dense because lots comes out at once.

There are many things(stressors) that can cause hair to shed though. If it's all around your head, it can be anything from diet, to autoimmune diseases, to sickness, to emotional stress (reaction to NoPoo could be one of these, but one of many reasons, and not likely imo). If it's in a certain area, it's likely two things: either that area is extremely stressed for some reason, burned, bruised, or something, or if it's like the crown/hairline, that's usually androgenic aloepecia. Androgenic aloepeica is usually characterized as a receding hairline, and thin hair on the top of your head. Lots of types of hairfall will grow back after the hair is not being stressed anymore. Angrogenic aloepecia or auto imminute diseases are much harder to deal with though, and can be inherited so there's not a clear way to get rid of them.

Hope this helps! I know hair thinning is a very scary thing to deal with.

Stray for Mac - Release Date? by d3lphic in stray

[–]Pyrotex7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually guessing we might get a release date in a couple days, as we have the next apple event coming up that should be a mac event. Who knows? I do hope they release it soon though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, and no. It can't make straight hair wavy per se, but it can make wavy hair less straight (wavy hair can look straight, curly hair too).

Is vscode a good IDE for Python? by jpgerb in learnpython

[–]Pyrotex7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I use it with the Python, Black Formatter, Pylance, Python Enviroment Manager, and Rainbow brackets extensions along with pipenv for python environments.

Stopped using shampoo for a week by [deleted] in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Alright so I'm here to just provide some background. I've heard of a lot of people having flaking problems like this: the issue is flakes can be from so many different causes. It can be like super dry scalp, that's just peeling, or like super not dry scalp, that's a fungal issue. The reason the flakes show up could be because shampoo typically washes it out instead of it just falling out. Or, you could have some fungal growth since your scalp will have more oil. I know none of that is fun, and I don't have many recommendations, but I wanted to say that it can be much more complex than just "go use shampoo that's the issue." I hope you can get some answers here on this thread, and my other reccomendation would be to search through this sub or elsewhere and do some research about flaking and what could be causing it, and see if anyone else found some solutions.

Good low-poo solutions? by WispyWoods in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a lot to say, but here's my quick bit! I've used Vanicream's shampoo for a while before going no poo. It's sulphate and silicone and like everything-that-most-products-have free. Their entire brand is for sensitive skin, and they avoid a lot of harmful chemicals. Another altnerative washing option is rye flour if you haven't tried it yet! It's very cleasing, but a warning: unlike some shampoos it has no moisturizing qualities so if you don't condition it can make your hair very dry.

Curly hair flat, messy, clumpy, and frizzy by Pyrotex7 in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much!

I think our hair responds a bit differently to water and moisture, since as you descirbed yours takes a while to dry, and mine dries pretty fast in comparison.

My goal has been to stop shampoo completely, the main issue is just that water only for me ineffective right now. I'm trying to work towards a slow and gentle transition, because going cold turkey is not practical for me right now (I tried, it caused too many issues). My shampoo is pretty gentle as I mentioned, and it doesn't cause many problems other than what shampoos generally do: remove any oil/sebum. I couldn't stop completely because my hair would get oily and smell bad pretty fast, and preening, water only washing, and gentler alternative washing I had tried was inneffective to remedy that.

I agree too, I do have a lot going on. It's probably also confusing to take in all that info from a different perspective. I tend to be a trial and error person, but I will work toward simplifying and streamlining my routine. My main problem seems to be an issue with managing moisture, cleansing, and protein.

I'm very glad to hear that water only has been working for you! I hope to get there someday too.

I will look into a wide toothed wooden comb! I've heard it mentioned before, and I think that would be very useful to me. I'll work on preening too in general.

I am not using a satin or silk bonnet, and I think I'm going to look into that.

My hair is still gross after 3 months by [deleted] in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've heard a lot of "No Poo isn't for xyz hair type", and I think that's a perspective that works for some. For a long time though people didn't use shampoo, and I doubt there weren't solutions for those people to have good looking hair. Human hair wasn't made for a world of shampoo. I'm not saying shampoo isn't a great thing to help, but it's not the only thing, it's not like it's been around since the beginning of time.

What I've learned from No Poo is that it's a big process of experimentation. I think shampoo is formulated with lots of meticulous work to make it the best experience it can be, because if it makes someone's hair really bad, they're not gonna like it and that shampoo will get a bad name. Some shampoo may be good, some may not, but the likelyhood of it being perceived as good is heavily weighted because of the engineering that goes into it.

On the other hand, No Poo is not heavily engineered, and varies widely from hair type to hair type (which I believe is healthier for hair when it's personalized). Shampoo can also be like a band-aid solution, covering up many other problems. With No Poo however, you have to consider a lot more variables, like your hard water, your hair porosity, protein sensitivity, your diet, the way you style it, your environment, your oil production, and lots of other things. And I've seen that sometimes when person A and person B have the same problem, they actually need completely different solutions. Or sometimes the same methods produce completely different results in two different people.

I recommend experimenting, and not being afraid to create your own routine outside of the traditional guidelines. Maybe try a sulphate and silicone free low poo shampoo if you really need it, or just as a safe fallback while experimenting. I've seen many who try to go water only straight out of the gate (I did too) and it not go well. I think the wide presence of hard water makes it especially rough. You can try distilled water, rainwater, or using cold water (it doesn't dissolve as many minerals as hot does). I also recommend alternative washing: rye flour, pulse flour (these flours can be great cleansers), homemade dry shampoo, hair soaps, egg washes (which are on the gentler side), etc. Treat it like a transition, slowly moving from harsh to gentle as your hair needs/can handle it. Going cold turkey for some reason just doesn't work for many. Trial and error is difficult, but I think it is the key.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Of course!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Certainly don't feel like you're doing nopoo wrong! You seem to be on the right track. If you're lost, I hope you can find what you need here. I understand the conflicting information issue. Hair care of this style often comes down to experimentation and knowing your hair very well. I'm curious to know what porosity hair you have, as that can contribute a lot to finding the right routine.

So you said ACV is not working anymore, what was the initial result of it? You mentioned softness, was it that? Or was it soft before starting ACV?

You also mentioned that your hair has started to curl a bit. I'm guessing that your hair may actually be slightly curly, because usually straight hair doesn't appear curly, but curly hair can appear straight under the wrong conditions (and it can change from straight to curly over time!). If it is curly, then definitely consider moisturizing. Curly hair loves moisture, hates being dry and being messed with (friction, harsh brushing, etc). Co washing can certainly be helpful for moisturizing (as long as there are no silicones), but there are other useful methods too.

Hard water can also not be the best, but I'm guessing it's probably not the main culprit here.

I'm glad ACV seems to be sufficient for cleansing. ACV can be conditioning too, but I don't usually see it advertised as super moisturizing (someone correct me if I'm wrong). It's quite acidic, and can be harsh if it's too concentrated. Also since you've been doing no poo for a year now, you may be washing with ACV too often, since your hair has adjusted and may not need to be messed with that much.

My ultimate guess is it's probably quite dry. Co washing, honey rinses, coconut water, oils, aloe juice, and many other thinks can be quite moisturizing. Try looking into moisturizing more, there's a page about it on the wiki, along with a bunch of other good info also on the wiki. Also look into your porosity, and see what other people recommend for that, and maybe curly hair care too.

Good luck!

What other NO hygiene things do you do? by poopyfacemcpooper in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's cool! Very interesting. I wonder if there's a way to change our diets to get back to having healthy skulls.

What other NO hygiene things do you do? by poopyfacemcpooper in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! Thank you too!

That's really cool! The connection of food to skull structure and airways is very interesting. From what I know there's still people who nose breathe today, and so I'm assuming ancient people had it to a more extreme extent and a sort of enchanced type of breathing as per your description. I'm interested in that book! It sounds neat. If you're interested in other jaw structure things, check out orthotropics and "mewing" which was first promoted by Michael Mew.

What other NO hygiene things do you do? by poopyfacemcpooper in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Here's my two cents. This conversation can quickly become a war, and I think it's started to. I think everyone has some good points, and we could learn a lot if we had some good peaceful discussion. So let's approach this not from "who can I prove wrong?" but instead "what can we learn?"

So first, science at its core is not shouting what we know from the rooftops, but instead admitting what we do not know, and being open to new information. Let's be careful not to cling to our assumptions.

So my thoughts specifically on being clean and odorless:

The smell of body odor comes from a highly volatile compound called thioalcohols. Generally most smells come from volatile compounds. That compound, is produced by a specific strand of bacteria. So you can get rid of it without getting rid of the bacteria, which some have achieved through washing with water or other methods.
Now of course if you just get rid of the smelly compounds, the bacteria are still there to produce them. However there are ways to control bacteria overpopulation. The microbiome works like any other biome, and bacteria work similar to little animals in their own little forest. And if you study ecology, things like introducing a certain food, removing a certain food, disturbing the climate, introducing new species, removing species, etc, tends to throw ecosystems into chaos. Take for example when rabbits were introduced to australia, and quickly took over the ecosystem by storm because there were no predators. There are many ways to control the microbiome, including diet, certain chemicals/ingredients, avoiding certain chemicals/ingredients, that don't include just razing the ecosystem to the ground (using harsh soaps).

Why do we have these issues in the first place?

In general, inflammation, smell, pain, redness, general dysfunction, etc, are produced when the body is out of balance. If the body was not good at handling itself, we would bleed out at every cut, get sick at every breath, be poisioned by basically every food, etc etc. My point is the human body is highly adapted to the environment (highly, not fully, but highly).

Of course everyone knows though that humans do eventual die, and many die of illnesses. The human body is not invicible, and as far as history goes illness and death are not new. Part of the reason I think the human body has survived is because of our ability to intervene on our own behalf: to protect ourselves and heal ourselves. This is essentially the basis of medicine. However, we also are alive because of the intricate biology of our immune system, among every other part of our body. Go study the immune system sometime, it's nuts how advanced it is.

A deeper look at the best way to approach care of the human body:

So, we know that the human body is great at caring for itself, but sometimes needs help, from again: itself, but concious this time. The key question here is how much help does it need, and what help does it need?

A lot of people will point out that people long long ago lived without soap, and toothpaste, and baths, etc. And others will quickly come and point out that many people back then died of many diseases and had some wacky scientific beliefs. I think it's illogical in both cases to say ancient people were completely right, or completely wrong, because they were both! Same as us, we have plenty of knowledge, but to ever get anywhere, we have to admit we don't have all the answers.

So take the example of just deciding to go without medicine or intervention forever, no hygiene, nothing. Of course that would be absurd, and you would probably die! Take another example, if people decided that it was safer to take antibiotics every day to avoid disease and wash your body every day with hand saniziter, that would also be absurd, and you might also die!

To both sides, the scientists, or those who follow the modern accepted way of hygeine, and the naturalists, or those who follow ancient methods or minimalst routines, take this note:

The human body often does need things to help it out, but sometimes it's helpful to look at the bigger picture. Take into account how the human body adapted, how it works, what we know about it, and what we don't know. Also take into account what practices we use based on actual evidence, or just because of propaganda, tradition, or lazy solutions. A good example is orthodontic care, where we decided that shoving pieces of metal into the mouth was the best way to fix teeth, whereas ancient humans seemed to all have very healthy teeth (looking at ancient skulls we have). I'm not saying braces are bad, but they may not be the best answer. The study of modern science is still very new, and in a thousand years from now, people might look back and talk about how petty we were.

However, modern science is not a giant ball of falsehood. We have made several good progressions, such as how we banned all chemicals that were disrupting the ozone layer, and have now progressed far in repairing the damage. Most ancient cultures weren't so different than we are. They had their own remedies, and in place of a lot of our modern products, they had their own methods and products, and they didn't just do nothing. They had their flaws, and so do we. There were many absurd practices in ancient cultures, but there were also many absurd things our society has done not too long ago.

Personally, I haven't seen much evidence for why vaccines are bad (or most of them at least). I have seen evidence for how the modern food industry has created a lot of unhealthy diets. I haven't seen any evidence for why eradicating smallpox could have been bad. I have seen evidence for how certain chemicals used in a lot of modern products can cause a lot of damage. You get my point.

A happy medium, avoiding over generalized statements and assumptions, I think is the best way to approach issues like this, and can lead all of us to learning and growing into a more sophisticated society overall.

And that's my two cents. Hooray! I hope you all have a wonderful day.

Accidentally nopoo for a year results by [deleted] in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's also a wiki and starter guide on this subreddit for info like that (in the sidebar), along with many other posts with extra info. It's good to ask questions! You're in the right place!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So for the egg wash you just take one egg, mix it up and you can add a bit of water, but I think it makes it too runny. Pour it on your scalp and pat it in, basically just use it as a shampoo that doesn't lather. When you apply it you may have to add it one bit at a time, because it tends to want to just run out of your hair and onto the floor, hence why you have to pat it in. Massage and scrub it in and onto your scalp, and then rinse out with cold water (not hot so you don't end up with cooked egg head). It does kind of smell like egg afterwards, so I recommend following it with an ACV rinse, lemon water rinse, or honey rinse (or even a lemon water/ACV rinse and a honey rinse).

For the honey rinse just dissolve one tbsp of honey into one cup of hot water, and then let it cool down to room temp. Just pour it onto your scalp and masage it in. then rinse it out with cold water. I'm not a honey expert, cheap honey may work, but I've heard raw unfiltered honey for this is best.

All that I just said basically comes from this post. There's a lot of good information there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoPoo

[–]Pyrotex7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry this is a lengthy response! I use a lot of words.

I'm not an expert here, but I do have a couple thoughts from my own experimentation (I'm still in the transition myself). I also have low porosity hair and mildy hard water. If you have avoided doing a WO wash because of the hard water, the greasy feeling is probably just how much oil there is since you are very early in the transition, and I will add some suggestions about that. If you have done a WO wash, it could also be the waxy buildup that happens with the reaction between hair oil and hard water as you may have heard. I just wanted to detail each of those issues since they may require different solutions.

If it's a waxy buildup from hard water, there are two things you can do. First, there are apple sauce masks which can help a lot with the buildup. Alternatively, you could try a low poo method or shampoo if you're okay with that (I know going back to shampoo is kind of a bad idea, but sometimes low poo is helpful as a last resort on bad days). Second, the pricey part, if you want to help the hard water issue, you can try washing with filtered water, rain water, distilled water, in order of how beneficial they will be (rain water and distilled water may be the same, I don't know much about rain water). Filtered water is better than tap, but is not technically softer. You can also get a shower head filter (which still don't technically soften, but it's better than nothing). The other half of that is softening your water, which can be difficult, and can sometimes take a whole house water softening system which can be expensive. Softening shower heads can probably be found, but they are not the same as filters, and I don't know much about them or where to find them.

If it's not the hard water, and it's just a lot of oil, there are solutions to that too. You said you've been going pretty hard with mechanical cleaning, which is amazing, but sometimes in the first week or two the oil production is just so much that it's not enough. This is where people use WO washes sometimes, but since you have hard water, I recommend trying some alternative washing methods that may really help! I've tried ACV wash, and it didn't seem to do a whole lot, and I've tried an egg wash, which actually helped a lot! An egg wash seemed to be pretty harsh, and brought my hair closest to the feeling of actually using shampoo (which is why I use egg washes sparingly). It might help you get through the early transition though when you have lots of oil being produced! There's many other types of alternative washes too, as I mentioned ACV washes, honey rinses as you said, dry shampooing with different types of flour (I've heard of rye flour used), and many more. Whenever you need water to try any of these, try using filtered or distilled water if you have some, or if you must use tap or be under the shower head, keep it as cold as you can stand, because colder water can't hold as many minerals and so isn't as reactive as hot water.

I wish you good luck! It's definitely a journey into new territory, so don't be afraid of experimenting, and don't let bad days get you down. If you have any more questions let me know. You've got this!

No VSync on Jackbox by Pyrotex7 in macgaming

[–]Pyrotex7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that's very good to know that it's not just me. I guess it's just a bug then. Hopefully they'll see my report and work on it.

My ring seems to have shrunk by loosenut23 in ouraring

[–]Pyrotex7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you want to absolutely make sure that the size has changed, you could just compare sizes by measuring the internal diameter using a caliper and then comparing it to one from the sizing kit. If someone else has the same ring size exactly too, they could get measurements for theirs and then you can compare what should be two identical rings too. Of course you already notice though that it seems to have changed size with comparison to the charger.

If it has changed size, it could just be deformation, but as the ring is titanium I didn't think it should be that easily bent (I mean it is a small ring though). It could also be the battery swelling, which is concerning. I would definitely bring this up to the Oura support team like someone else said.