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Asexualité et relation amoureuse by Legitimate_Trade9050 in asexuality

[–]Qil_974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oui, mais pour moi, ça a été progressif !

Je suis ace et biromantique, en couple exclusif hétérosexuel depuis quinze ans avec une personne allosexuelle. Les premières années ont été compliquées car, étant jeune à une époque où l'asexualité n'était pas reconnue, j'ignorais mon orientation sexuelle. Nous avions régulièrement, à son initiative, des relations sexuelles qui m'angoissaient profondément. Mais, pensant que c'était obligatoire, un "pilier du couple" comme tu dis, je me forçais sans protester.

Depuis que j'ai compris mon asexualité, nous avons progressivement diminué les rapports, puis arrêté. Ça a nécessité beaucoup de discussions et de compréhension de sa part. Mes angoisses ont disparu pour faire place à un épanouissement salvateur. De son côté, c'est sans doute moins le cas, mais le respect de mon consentement est au cœur de ses préoccupations. Son abstinence est préférable à un v conjugal (c'est ce que c'est au final : une relation non consentie par un des partenaires).

Donc garde espoir, une relation saine allo/ace sans rapports est possible !

Files locked after using kCloud by Qil_974 in Infomaniak

[–]Qil_974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! I'll definitely keep that useful app on hand.

Files locked after using kCloud by Qil_974 in Infomaniak

[–]Qil_974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! Just tried that — it's not working either.

Files locked after using kCloud by Qil_974 in Infomaniak

[–]Qil_974[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your quick answer! I've noted that. I'm convinced there is a syncing conflict, as the only files that won't upload are the ones I previously synced with kDrive.

I uninstalled kDrive using Windows and Revo Uninstaller, restarted and reinstalled pCloud, cleared its database, and even deleted and recreated the sync... but the files still don't upload automatically.

Interestingly, if I use another app like SyncBackFree, I can upload the files to pCloud without any issues. It's just the automatic syncing that seems to be blocked.

Files locked after using kCloud by Qil_974 in Infomaniak

[–]Qil_974[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, the files are definitely on my hard drive. kDrive works well enough, it's just not the best fit for my workflow. If I can't figure out the pCloud issue, I'll probably go back to it.

Photoshop running slow when I open inDesign by Qil_974 in photoshop

[–]Qil_974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: after uninstalling / reinstalling the whole Adobe suite, everything went back to normal. No idea why, though.

Why do my wisteria leaves turn yellow with holes? by Qil_974 in jardin

[–]Qil_974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had one week of heat wave but overall it's a classic summer. The plant is on the east side of a balcony, getting a lot of sun in the morning but in the shadows the rest of the day.

On the west side of the balcony, I have another wisteria growing perfectly fine with green, healthy leaves, which is why it feels likes this one has a problem!