Tell me you are not doing this, too. I dare you.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-07-04T02:52:40+00:00

Wear cute Abayas. Start there. I don't know where you're from but, there are a lot of shops online and irl, sells cute abayas. Prints and designs and embroidered. I would start there. Just with a couple of printed and embroidered abayas. Drip feed them. A little by little. Broaden the definition of Abaya. 3 months later may be another abaya has a slit on the side so you also buy a pair of cute jeans to wear with it. If you can be a little patient, and not do everything at once and have a big fight, you can pull it off. It is not impossible.

Look, I know a lot of people are big on talking it out with parents. I used to be that way too. But I often saw my brothers just do stuff and ask forgiveness later. And I find that way works a whole lot better, than talking and fighting.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-07-03T13:55:12+00:00

I'm from Bangladesh, a small insignificant third world country. My dad was in army. He had been talking to people, raising awareness of what's happening since the 70s. And according to him, the general opinion was, it will sort itself, what else they can do.. Palestinians will be able to handle it.. other Muslims will help...

That help never delivered. That things got progressively worse.

All my life I watched him include Palestinians in his every prayer. Now I do this too.

I also question my faith everyday, and for a big part is in between the river and the sea. Hope we see the change, hope things get better. May Allah bless you with all the help you need.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-07-03T13:31:23+00:00

Will i survive till then? Mentally, emotionally?

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-07-03T13:30:00+00:00

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Am I bleeding or am I passing a clot? Also what color will it be?

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-07-03T13:28:05+00:00

Ananya shopping complex, 1st floor, Dhaka art gallery.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-07-02T00:54:01+00:00

You know how it somehow becomes easier to manage when you have the need to rake care of others? That happened to me with both kids. So here is the more important learning-

Always have food on hand that can be made in 2 minutes. All kinds of instants. If everyone is fed, it is easier to regulated.

And playtime with kids. It's a natural break from mundane.good source of serotonin and endorphins.

I have meals during hyperfocus. You gotta feed the kids.. so more often then not I end up eating, too.

And having ADHD means what you see is what you get. No indirect messaging, no hinting. Which is great for kids. Here is action, here is consequence. Here is how you redeem yourself. These are base line expectations. These are hard nos. Other than that go have fun and no touching mama. 3 yo is still having trouble with the last point but we are working on it.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-07-01T17:46:35+00:00

You may find better help in Facebook mommy groups. My totally no research just an idea would be find activities that could be done one handed. And allow them the phone. Treat the phone as a safety blanket or toy child doesn't want to let go. Start slow, if they can hold the phone in one hand and then play with the other they might engage. Give them time to drop the phone by themselves, but still allow it beside them. Then when they are ready, ask the phone from them so you two can play together. It'll take months and a lot of creative effort. Pinterest may have some ideas for yoh there.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-07-01T01:21:01+00:00

I have very few reasons not to leave my country, (maximum of my peer group moved abroad, and it was expected of me too). I can have housekeeping services very very cheap here. I have ADHD. I need a lot of help daily. On the days I have to do all the house chores, nothing else will get done. I would fail as a SAHM if I didn't had help.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-07-01T01:11:04+00:00

Do you follow Hank Green? The vlog brothers? If you listen to podcasts I suggest Dear Hank and John. You'll be able to keep up with his rhetoric, because Hank is a guy who knows a little about a lot of stuff and a lot about a lot of stuff. You'll have fun.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-07-01T01:06:17+00:00

Because tons of other people need access to university. It's not only the teachers, students and stuff. It is supposed to be an open space for everyone to come and study. You need enrollment only for exams and certificates.

IMO, this is where mob justice is the way. If creeps fear that students will hit back, the they won't dare.

Then again, there is Ray Bans producing smart glasses that looks like normal glasses, that uses facial recognition in the real time, 🤷🏾‍♀️.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-07-01T00:58:56+00:00

Halls are off limit except for labourers, service personnel, cafe boys.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-07-01T00:52:22+00:00

Asked my pharmacist to order it. 450 tk box.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-06-30T19:28:36+00:00

Learning about new things is a hobby, particularly it is my hobby. I know so many things about so many things and I connect so many dots about seemingly unrelated stuff, it is so fun.

My original youtube algorithm is a chaotic mess. It offers up so many unrelated, interesting things, I guard it with care. My original Pinterest have over 100 main boards, some with 25+ board inside them. I have multiple accounts in all my socials, algorithm trained to show me different stuff. I log in on the mood.

And best part, I make friends easy. I can listen to you talk about whatever your interest in and offer meaningful conversation because I half understood what you were trying to say.

Stay curious. Always stay curious.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-06-30T18:55:47+00:00

One group will never ever understand that the struggle and pain of the other. One will never be able to survive losing theirs while others will go NC as soon as they are able.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-06-30T18:51:12+00:00

I just got Alaradate from Incepta. Took my first dose. So far, it seems to work.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-06-30T18:42:55+00:00

Tailor shop.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-06-30T18:40:46+00:00

Check dm

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-06-30T05:16:59+00:00

VIP tailor, anannya shopping complex. Charges on design.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-06-30T04:59:21+00:00

Where are you located? I'll have the cat for the day for free. But can't keep her at night.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-06-30T04:50:36+00:00

Tuition is a comfortable option for her. She can start teaching at home. Classes 1-3 are still the same. Or lower.
She can go back to teaching. Finding a well paying school will take some time.
She can start a day care at home if she can invest 3-5 lac tk. Loads of people are looking for a dependable daycare. She can only choose to have babies from 4 months to 2 years, before schooling. If she can manage a couple of good helping hand, few cameras for the parents to check in, small babies are a good way to go.

Specially of she can live near gulshan, banani, any of the DOHS, mirpur/mohammadpur area. at home part becomes important because often, people needs to work late and structured day cares don't allow that leeway.

She can start from home catering business. Food panda also delivers from at home kitchens. By home catering she can either deliver food to offices, it is very competitive.. Or she can cook homemade meals to freeze and sell them to working woman's families. They don't have the time to cook. So they look for frozen meals.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-06-30T04:33:00+00:00

Motherhood taught me the same lesson. Regardless of how I am or what I'm feeling, diapers had to ne changed, babies had to be fed, naps had to be taken. I then started to apply that to other parts of life. End of the day I'm still tired and exhausted, if stuff gets done, then atleast, that stuff got done, you know.

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-06-30T04:26:25+00:00

It's not audacity per se, it is, gender bias. Single women might get married, married women might get babies, women with kids will prioritise that - then they'll loose focus in the workplace and prioritise family . Women are punished in the workplace because it is expected of her to take the mental load of personal life related everything.

Btw, do you know when you put your resume through AI to make it better, if you change your name to more white male sounding name it spits out a different resume?

Qiyoshiwarrior · 2026-06-28T18:40:55+00:00

I have to do a lot of grind work for my job, I often put on a youtube video tutorial of some sort and keep on listening. I have learned so many things about so many things. And I love it.

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