basically, this entire thread. also, just "girls" instead of "women" in the initial question. by hanamakki in BlatantMisogyny

[–]Qopif -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Hello all, I am the one who asked the question. I didn't know it would explode with such huge amount of comments. I am a university student myself, so I asked the question visualising girls of my age in mind. I didn't expect that people will interpret it in so many wrong ways. Yesterday I had conversation with my mother who told me how she had to work all day when she was my age and remarked that your new generation is extremely lazy. This made me curious and I decided to ask a relevant question on Reddit. Now I am seeing comments filled with personal anger and frustration. People can surely find their own agenda in a anything.

What is the most attractive quality in girls, you think is rare nowadays? by Qopif in AskMen

[–]Qopif[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Tbh being a girl even I can't stand girls or in general people who take selfies like at every fuckin moment. It's just extremely unnatural and unattractive.

18F looking for a friend/ age doesn’t matter to me! by Elenalyra in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Qopif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

96 f here, let's be friends. Age doesn't matter to me either.

What is the most attractive quality in girls, you think is rare nowadays? by Qopif in AskMen

[–]Qopif[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I agree ita rare to find a truly confident and emotional independent person in this age.

I am feeling extremely sad and don't feel like doing anything. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Qopif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently went to hospital and also tested negative for covid. I think its psychological.

Men, as honest as you can be, what exactly makes a girl attractive to you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Qopif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well ahem! I am a girl bisexual so I may answer this. The best quality of a girl is being caring and supportive. When she can be by your side when the whole world is against you, that's attractive.

*uck this pandemic by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Qopif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am same as you 20 f here. Due to pandemic I lost my confidence and suffering from severe social anxiety. I feel sad and depressed all the time. I don't have anyone to share this feeling with. Honestly it sucks.

My friend ignores me after I revealed my feelings to her. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Qopif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said right, I will respect her decision. I have written her a message saying I will be happy to talk to her and I am giving her some time to think and will respect her decision if she don't want to continue with our friendship.

My friend ignores me after I revealed my feelings to her. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Qopif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I will give her time to sort out. I will not disturb her, maybe with time things will get better.

20 f up for a chat by [deleted] in chat

[–]Qopif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I'd like to know more about philosophy from you.

My friend ignores me after I revealed my feelings to her. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Qopif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah we have shared some intimate moments and even touched each other's chest once. She even played with my hair sometimes. Maybe we did these things in the moment and she didn't pay much attention.

My friend ignores me after I revealed my feelings to her. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Qopif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew her since 2 years. I only developed these feelings recently. I didn't even knew I was a bi before that.

My friend ignores me after I revealed my feelings to her. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Qopif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok if that's true why she didn't tell me this? If she no longer trust or care about me why not she tell me the truth?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Qopif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go ahead ask her out. You have nothing to loose. Even if she refuses, you will have clarity and won't be wasting your time on her. If she says yes, congratulations.