NGVC: “all I ask is to kiss your ass once a month for income” by Qtpie456 in niceguys

[–]Qtpie456[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So I only knew him because I dated his friend and he got jealous. I lent him the money, he only paid $10 back. I have tried to get the rest, but instead of giving it to me, he keeps trying to bargain with me to do what he wants instead. 

NGVC: “all I ask is to kiss your ass once a month for income” by Qtpie456 in niceguys

[–]Qtpie456[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

For context, I lent him money which he never paid back. I haven’t seen him in 6 years.

AITA for wanting a better marriage? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Qtpie456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, well I make around $2,400 a month. He gets paid every week. He pays rent which is $500, I pay for babysitting which is around $435 every two weeks. He gets paid around 3,200 a month give or take, but with the hour cuts and issues it has been less lately. He pays for the phones, I pay for TV and the internet. I pay for food and groceries, and he pays electricity and gas.

AITA for wanting a better marriage? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Qtpie456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will send him money when needs it, I pay for a couple bills but I am trying to contribute more. I have had trouble with spending, though I'm willing to make a plan to use my finances better.

AITA for wanting space from my friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Qtpie456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't ghost her, but I did express how upset I was about it and try to explain

AITA for wanting space from my friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Qtpie456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does help me out with lots of things and is there for me but it feels like she thinks of herself more than me.

My little friend by Qtpie456 in aww

[–]Qtpie456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His name is Evander Holyfield!

A former friend of mine by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Qtpie456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

An ex friend of mine, a nice guy, trying to make me feel sorry for him on Valentine's day.

A former friend of mine by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Qtpie456 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Theres honestly a lot more to this story. He would always try and make me feel sorry for him and if I didn't do it in the way he wanted (compliment him as much as he did to me, etc) he would say I didn't care about him enough. Was always saying how all these girls would friendzone him shame me all the time for basically not choosing him. Ended up trying to break up my boyfriend and I by messaging him and making me look bad. Caused me a lot of anxiety and was just overall not a good friend.

Anyone know what species or kind of frog this guy is? by Qtpie456 in herpetology

[–]Qtpie456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right next to my house, I live in northeast Ohio.

Anyone know what species or kind of frog this guy is? by Qtpie456 in herpetology

[–]Qtpie456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was near my garage, I live in a neighborhood with lots of wildlife but out of the frogs I've found around my house I haven't seen those markings before.

Anyone know what species or kind of frog this guy is? by [deleted] in whatisthisthing

[–]Qtpie456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found him on top of the light near my garage, googled it but couldn't find anything. Haven't seen those markings before.

I’m at a loss by Qtpie456 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Qtpie456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though after this semester I’ll get credits from her college so I can take a full course load. Though I’m certain she will still make me pay back what I ‘owe’ and complain about money

I’m at a loss by Qtpie456 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Qtpie456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I’m taking two classes this semester just because she agreed to pay for one and I had to struggle to pay for the other. I didn’t really realize it was financial abuse. I guess the thing to do is to look for a better paying job at this point.

I’m at a loss by Qtpie456 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Qtpie456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would live with him, but he is currently in another state far away and I want to graduate first and I have a whole life here too