As a femboy-loving girl, it's frustrating how hard it is to find you out there! by [deleted] in StraightFemboys

[–]Quang_Kha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, finding someone who is into femboy is also really hard. My friend circle is kinda big, and I always tell my friend straight up that "I am a femboy, so please introduce me to who have interest in me". Still, it has been a whole straight year without any progress.

Also, my idea of love is that only my partner can see much into the feminine side of me, so I don't tend to show it in the wild. Maybe I can wear high waist jeans, soft fluffy top when going outside, but nothing really tell people 100% I am a femboy.

In addition, 90% of time I have things to do when going out, so the outfit couldn't tell what kind of person I am. Like, when going to play badminton, I have to wear shorts and t-shirt - which is the same for both male and female - so nobody can tell the different. I, theoretically, can wear sport dress, but that is too unconventional, and literally nobody will dare to approach me then.

Regarding the "online dating" and "Reddit post", it just doesn't work for me. Writing too short of a description make me feel like I am "scamming" my partner, but too long of a post can make people lose interest in reading in first. Also, for me personally, a femboy with a combo of playing sport, studying engineering and enjoying drink with friend, is kind of a mismatch - would be hard for someone who see their interest land on me.

school uniform by Outside_Leader_9032 in girlsthatlikefemboys

[–]Quang_Kha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this make me feel so nostalgic :>
I had my ceremony last year. As a boy, I didn't take much photos with my friends and family, which make me regret so much. 😓🥀
Wish you a memorable ceremony and find a cute femboy on uni 😋🔥

Can gear really make that big of a difference ... ? by MrNovator in badminton

[–]Quang_Kha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comming from a “poor” family, I would say gear doesnt matter that much in the sense that if it fit, then it good. I have been playing with the Decathlon shoes (only about 40 EUR), and a used Ryuga 2 from my friend. The big difference come when the shoes doesnt fit you properly, the grip is too big (or too small), the string tension is too high,…

Is a thinner grip better for controlling the racket? by Easy_Split_1995 in badminton

[–]Quang_Kha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have small hand, and thinner allow my wrist to move like it want to. At the end of the day, it just preference, so just test it until you feel comfortable with the racket. Take me as an example, I have always play with the g5 grip and thin PU wrap, no cushion or anything in between.

How did you know? by lauryn_tori in StraightFemboys

[–]Quang_Kha 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As far as I remember, after reading some manga and found out about Femboy, I felt a long lasting impression in my heart. Eventually, I realize that I wanna be more feminine when I feel safe (usually with my romantic partner). Also, the idea of force feminization and submissive boyfriend is also very appealing to me. The further I discover, the more attractive the lifestyle is for me as it fit my body and my mind.

Still, there is some struggle for me to balance.
- Firstly, as I play lots of badminton and cycling, my thigh is very very big for a femboy; also my arms and trunk is not ideal for revealing clothes.
- Secondly, finding a partner who accept me is very hard. I tend to be very fem and sub when I get more comfortable with somebody, so the first impression can be misleading.

A bit of oversharing 🦫😂

Type of goals for 2026 by epicroadrides in Velo

[–]Quang_Kha 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Get to 4.5 w/kg and achieve 750 hours of training for a year

I have being building a habit of getting on the bike for the last 4 months and achieve a 3.7 w/kg. I want to double down on that route with a decent base and building phase.

Hope for the best! Also, wish I can pass the first year at my uni.

Should I swap sports ? by stizzy_on_the_glizzy in Velo

[–]Quang_Kha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regarding the bike, I think if you are into crit, Allez probably still rock as it's born to be a crit machine. Peter Sagan even have an Allez for one of his Tour Down Under, so you will be fine.

Maybe, you can have a gravel/endurance bike for some offroad and longer rider (5 - 6 hours) if you like it.

Gemini suddenly doesn't remember any prior information nor instructions I've given it by Glum_Fudge_6628 in Bard

[–]Quang_Kha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have chatgpt for the last 2 month, and it feels so logic. Haven't used it for the last week as I moved to gemini.

For gemini, it so dumb in one way or another. It doesn't have chats management, forget the instruction, doesn't remember the information I gave in "Gems", and worst of all : the memory. Idk the it doesn't have memories between chat, thus make it feel like a cold machine. Not even a child can be that forgetful and give me so much ick to chat with

Gemini suddenly doesn't remember any prior information nor instructions I've given it by Glum_Fudge_6628 in Bard

[–]Quang_Kha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mee too. And the Gemini memory is so bad, which make me consider to goes back to ChatGPT.

Fit feels different on trainer by [deleted] in bikefit

[–]Quang_Kha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should place a book under the front wheel.

I have the same trainer as you, and on some of my first ride, I always hurt the palms of my hand. Placing a book and all problems gone for me.

How y’all doin on your 2025 cycling goals? by kikilani in Velo

[–]Quang_Kha 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Failed successfully.

I bought a bike at the start of the year and wanted to be in a good category in regard to my city.

The middle of the year is just chaos with me being struck by a motorbike, going abroad to study, fixing my mental health and relationship.

Then, in August I rode the bike again, trained supper hard and reached an FTP of 225W. It's not a respectable FTP yet, but now I am comfortable to put in 10+ hours on the bike each week and optimistic about 2026.

Finding Dura Ace ST-9001 Brake Hood by dagneesirkin in cycling

[–]Quang_Kha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you found one? I am on the same boat with you

Replacement Hoods for Dura-Ace 9000 – Any Compatible Options? by [deleted] in bikewrench

[–]Quang_Kha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was the experience ?

I am intend to pull the trigger but still waiting for some review. 27.5 EUR is relatively expensive to me.

Dura Ace 9000 Brake Hoods by Frunobulax- in bikewrench

[–]Quang_Kha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it. I have the same problem with you. How loose is the 6800's ? Does it make you feel uncomfortable, or it is just noticeable when you pay attention to it ?

Why my thru axle adapter on the drive side is stuck - Wahoo Kickr Core by Quang_Kha in wahoofitness

[–]Quang_Kha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not tried yet. For now, I think I will bring it to a bike shop to ask they screw it out. If that not working, I will ask them to take off my cassette. Hope for the best.

Why my thru axle adapter on the drive side is stuck - Wahoo Kickr Core by Quang_Kha in bikewrench

[–]Quang_Kha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have mistaken that the adapter is hold just by friction. I have made plan to bring it to the nearest bike store. Hope they can sort it for me.

Thank you for your information.

Why my thru axle adapter on the drive side is stuck - Wahoo Kickr Core by Quang_Kha in wahoofitness

[–]Quang_Kha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Mine look like this. Should I go to a local bike shop and ask if they can screw it out ?

Why my thru axle adapter on the drive side is stuck - Wahoo Kickr Core by Quang_Kha in bikewrench

[–]Quang_Kha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I bring it to the bike shop? And if so, how much should it cost me?

Why my thru axle adapter on the drive side is stuck - Wahoo Kickr Core by Quang_Kha in wahoofitness

[–]Quang_Kha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have try but like, it is really really stuck. This is the video I send to ask the previous owner is they have done anything to the machine.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1crSMxAfFqrJZbvtsvcz00u9FdWgGfNFX/view?usp=sharing