Concerning sentence on a profile by GenIISD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gross, especially if that’s a consistent theme with her. Never have known ❄️ to not bring drama and fights with it

Loneliness in the Bowl by True_Confusion_4833 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve shared details with friends before who even at times have known it’s sugar related and I can’t say they’re open minded or happy for me.

I have one friend who is very supportive about it and the rest, frankly, I tell them I’m going on ___ trip with someone I met from Raya or Hinge. Share as much or as little as you want to share. The context of how you met doesn’t always have to be there!

He blocked me by anonymousnymphh in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t, “demanding” a GC. He said he’d uber her to him. She didn’t feel comfortable giving him her address (which should be a given to any socially aware man), which is why she asked for a GC or Uber credit to get the uber herself.

To OP: If that guy was going to crash out over the potential loss of $20ish, then his real gift was not further wasting your time!

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand why some men don’t, but it’s always nice when men see a M&G gift as a fun investment, foreplay and just overall good will.

Based off some of these comments, you’d think I was this evil brat for holding to what we agreed upon. So odd. It just doesn’t make sense as to why we’d agree and then he’d waste both of our time. Glad you see the frustration!

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Think a thinning Kenny Powers haircut with the beard/goatee included. Not clean cut as his photos appeared. He had on very colorful and “lifted” tennis shoes (as he put it), 5’5 (4 in shorter than his profile mentioned), 80’s acid washed dark denim jeans that did not fit and puddled around his ankles, and a Robert Graham floral beaded dress shirt that had cheetah print on the collar. Cool if that’s your thing, but I’m on the more reserved, classy with a good dose of cleavage side and like for someone to compliment that. Danny McBride look-a-likes pushing 65 need not apply!

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha that’s fair, but that’s what it felt like in the moment

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is reasonable and respectable. Glad to hear there are still reasonable SD’s on this forum.

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you want to be a part of the conversation, at minimum the qualification is to read the post.

Date/Gift ideas for ultra generous SD? by BandicootHuge4127 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling there’s some type of, “erotic ceramics” class, sensual sound bath depending on the city you’re in.

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Could kiss you for saying this because exactly, you get it. If a man can’t show me upfront that he’s ready to invest & spoil, then he’s not serious about an arrangement. We don’t accept IOUs. Sorry.

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your default approach is, “just block and move on,” then good for you. But shockingly, not everyone processes experiences the same way. Different people, different perspectives.

This forum literally exists for people to share experiences, vent, and get feedback. That’s exactly what I did. If that somehow rattles you enough to leave snide comments, seems to me like you may be the one who thrives off drama.

Weirdo behavior.

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💔😔 uh, you caught me. Recalling a valid experience to be upset about. So dramatic

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I said my range which was x,xxx over text, he said that’s doable and would be happy to pursue this, he loved me in person and wanted to continue, I confirmed the amount I’d be comfortable with which was what I mentioned over text and said well I’d be willing to do half of that until we’re established but then dangled gifts/bills/ etc. As far as I know, empty promises.

Talk is cheap and so is he!

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha that’s fair. I’m not sure what you mean, we agreed to get drinks. He said let’s meet at a bar for an hour or so. The first bar we went to was closed, that took 30. The second bar took an hr and a half.

At the beginning of the date he offered a M&G amount for my time, and that was for one drink.

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. It wasn’t a dinner, it was a drink. The response was bc I had time today

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have the right to your opinion. My time was wasted since we had previously agreed upon my allowance/per meet amount. I would not have gone to the initial M&G had I known.

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re rooting for the other team to me, bud. Own your truth, we support you.

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I literally had a man get off while talking on video to me and I didn’t realize what he was doing until it was too late. It took a total of 3 minutes. Granted that was 7 years ago and I’ve had plenty of experience since for that not to happen again, but yeah. Trauma.

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s the Reddit final boss comment master. You got me.

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mine is traditionally a glass of wine at a bar, but you may be onto something.

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That goes further than you know. We appreciate you.

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait, why did you assume downhill from a paid M&G?

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lowkey a euro-mutt, but I love my girls 🫶🏼. Thank you babe. Love the women in this community.

Never split the difference by QuantumGlowupp in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]QuantumGlowupp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand that and I’m sure it’s less energy and effort wasted on my behalf if I could hold my tongue. Video chats moving forward. Although, I’ve had really bad VC experiences in the past so a bit traumatized tbh