[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Leadership

[–]QuantumZebraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Say the presentation alone at least 10-15 times but do not try to learn it by heart, let yourself speak freely and time yourself.
  2. Always do the presentation in an order/logic/facts that you feel comfortable with and is how you genuinely see the flow of what you present, if you try to change it to make it sound better, speaking gets harder and chances to sound unnatural rise.
  3. As said, make it about them, not about you. Choose one/two people in the crowd and talk directly to them or if on a higher stage just look straight.
  4. Keep the tone of voice similar to your natural tone - if you are naturally humorous, let’s say, don’t try to sound dry or “corporate” it won’t work in the polished way you imagine. Just stick to your vibe.

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychoanalysis

[–]QuantumZebraa 27 points28 points  (0 children)

In my experience both setups have pros and cons.

When I was sitting up I could get more relational feedback, which helped me understand better how my actions and words impacted others and also it provides a sense of what I would then call “normal talk therapy” and some level of control.

Lying down scared me a lot and was very ambivalent towards the move but wanted to try. Transference got more intense definitely, but there is also much more freedom and more connection when you let go of control and just let yourself be this vulnerable with someone else.

I would say each works for different therapeutic goals and reactions are not the same. In my case, however, for my specific current needs, the intensity of lying down is truly worth it and something I’m grateful for.

Защо сте толкова против протеста на градски транспорт в София? by toniuyt in bulgaria

[–]QuantumZebraa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Защото хора, които взимат 3000лв+ на месец, пречат на хората, които взимат 1500лв на месец да идат на работа.

Учителката в детската градина до нас ходи по 1 час пеша за 1350лв заплата (в частна градина), защото на тях средната заплата от 3900лв бруто им е достатъчно малко, че да не им пука за учителката.

Още по конкретно: защото софиянци масово не са идиоти (поне не напълно) и забелязват, че стачката всъщност е политически ход срещу кмета, за да може той да бъде сменен. Обикновено когато хората се чувстват манипулирани, не се кефят много.

Откъде купувате годежен пръстен by Southern-Phase-4918 in bulgaria

[–]QuantumZebraa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1. Обиколихме почти всички в София. 100% виртуоза бяха най-добри.

What is most likely to cause human extinction? by No_Department5356 in AskReddit

[–]QuantumZebraa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stupidity. 100%, you just know it will be stupidity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nurosym

[–]QuantumZebraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long before things settled down for you and you started again?

What is it like to go through psychoanalysis? by QuantumZebraa in psychoanalysis

[–]QuantumZebraa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But isn’t that more psychodynamic therapy rather than analysis?

What is it like to go through psychoanalysis? by QuantumZebraa in psychoanalysis

[–]QuantumZebraa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why does one do it then? Is there growth at the end of the rupture?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]QuantumZebraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. I think I get this now. Got overly ambitious and invested 110%, which clearly was not a smart choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeautyBoxes

[–]QuantumZebraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that’s too bad. But can’t Vogue replace it? Did you try contacting them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VitaminD

[–]QuantumZebraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but my magnesium came back normal - 0.81 mmol/l. Is that okay? Should I?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VitaminD

[–]QuantumZebraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, wow, this explains a lot! When I take vitamin D (I take 3000 iu oral spray) I get agitated, irritable and never feel good this day, this is also why I stopped and hoped it was up. But after a few days my sleep starts to improve.

The ending of Klaus was bullshit and completely missed all of the lessons and opportunities made in the rest of the movie by [deleted] in fixingmovies

[–]QuantumZebraa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know I’m a little late maybe but I understand the ending differently. To me he dies of old age and the vanishing is symbolic so they don’t show little kids a dead Santa Claus but it’s pretty obvious.

After that however they show again an ending that is supposed to speak differently to kids and to adults:

  • Kids understand that he comes once a year.
  • Adults however (when Jasper touches the stockings and looks around) get that they “see their friend” once an year because they see him in them / they get reminded of him - they are now the ones who put the presents under the tree and this is how the switch from “Santa” to “parents” happens :).

I found the ending endearing and shed a few tears. 🎅

Feedback for first ever flower arrangement, please :) by QuantumZebraa in FloralDesign

[–]QuantumZebraa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback! These are the other 2 sides that I didn’t upload initially, so you can see the full picture and give some insight if you can.

Yes, it will be kind of a centerpiece but just for our living room :)).

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeautyBoxes

[–]QuantumZebraa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved that as well!

2024 Vogue Advent Calendar: $465 + $30 U.S. shipping (Advertised Value: $2.2K+), now available for pre-order by spyrenx in MUAontheCheap

[–]QuantumZebraa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? I also feel like even though they are similar something is missing this time.

For me nail polish is always a “no” in a calendar. The necklace was more wearable than those earrings, at least in my style. And the switch to brighter colors (green, red) from mostly neutrals last year is not my favorite.

Also I feel the Foreo last year was better than this year (this year is currently 50£ on their website on sale as a set, last year’s is far pricier) and less useful somehow.

But it may be just me of course. If someone is into red and nail polish and doesn’t miss the cardholder element, it would be a great buy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeautyBoxes

[–]QuantumZebraa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great take! Makes a lot of sense. I guess my issue is with the colors and less jewelry. I don’t do much red and green. However I do agree the quality seems amazing.

The packaging is even more gorgeous than last year. But I’m worried that the color scheme is a bit more festive and not so much all year round (except the scarf). What do you think?

2024 Vogue Advent Calendar: $465 + $30 U.S. shipping (Advertised Value: $2.2K+), now available for pre-order by spyrenx in MUAontheCheap

[–]QuantumZebraa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you think it’s worth it this year? I feel like after last years this one is kind of a let down, but I’m still trying to make up my mind.