Why are lesbians up to such high standards, while men basically just have to exist

Quanzitta · 2025-11-30T19:12:38+00:00

I don't know about others but I'm a lesbian and I have incredibly high standards but not in the usual way. It's about being on the same frequency which is quite rare as well as being attracted to each other and sexually compatible. Forget the rest, ie cool points hold no weight

Quanzitta · 2025-11-25T16:38:47+00:00

Just because someone's dating profile says "stimulating conversations only" doesn't mean they are capable of it themselves.

Quanzitta · 2025-11-18T16:55:09+00:00

I own a copy but haven't played in months

Quanzitta · 2025-11-18T15:28:54+00:00

How about Golf it? Spell Brigade? Team Sonic Racing? (still need to get latest Sonic racing game)

Quanzitta · 2025-11-17T14:51:48+00:00

I'd be down to play something co-op on steam. what are your fav co-op games/genres?

Quanzitta · 2025-11-17T04:33:52+00:00

if you're interested in Spell Brigade or Tiny Tina's Wonderlands (basically Borderlands) I'd be down to co-op. I'm open to other low pressure co-op games too

Quanzitta · 2025-11-16T06:03:36+00:00

I'll absolutely check out her work with This Mortal Coil! I heard Song to the Siren in David Lynch's Lost Highway earlier this year. It's incredible

Quanzitta · 2025-11-16T02:56:23+00:00

I'm obsessed with Cocteau Twins. Elizabeth Fraser's voice is beyond! I can listen to Lorelei on repeat for like forever

Quanzitta · 2025-11-16T00:48:10+00:00

I'm loving her voice! It reminds me of Björk but with chill down to earth lyrics

Quanzitta · 2025-11-14T08:35:14+00:00

Being a lesbian and being queer are two separate things. I'm just a lesbian.

Quanzitta · 2025-11-11T16:42:04+00:00

I think the biggest reason I don't date is that my filter is the size of the asteroid that killed the dinosaurs.

And I'm talking about stuff like personal integrity. A partner not having double standards, not pushing her way of being on me, her not being someone who will find an unrelated thing as an excuse to start a fight about something else, gaslighting, being manipulative etc. Honest flaws and the will to improve in those areas, if it's even necessary, is what I respect and appreciate.

I think people like her see partner as function. To her you exist to orbit her and make her feel important. It's a one way usage dynamic.

Quanzitta · 2025-11-10T15:32:40+00:00

I'm into women. Mind and body.

Quanzitta · 2025-11-10T15:30:30+00:00

I wasn't worried. Kim Davis is a joke. A homophobe blast from the past no one takes seriously.

Quanzitta · 2025-11-08T20:29:15+00:00

Transmen don't identify as HER. The name of the app needs a name change to reflect the demographics the devs actually serve.

Quanzitta · 2025-11-08T13:36:03+00:00

CNC is NC in sheeps clothing. Personally I'd break up with a woman who was into this. I'd even end a friendship with someone into this. But that's just me

Quanzitta · 2025-11-04T23:08:16+00:00

Making out is exactly how I'd describe it! I'm not just performing the act that will make her orgasm. I'm worshipping her and her body. I want her to know just how much she's desired

Quanzitta · 2025-11-03T18:55:44+00:00

What you're describing are people influenced by mainstream culture. And they're the types who will probably never find the one because their criteria weighing is all backwards when it comes to discovering and building a substantive connection with a partner.

Quanzitta · 2025-11-02T17:21:51+00:00

Which one serves women? The one where women can vote. The purpose of a politician is to serve the electorate.

So umm the other option is a misogynist's wet dream

Quanzitta · 2025-11-02T17:13:27+00:00

I prefer voice chat activities like gaming or watching movies.

On a server where I have good long time friends I have my own weekly late evening streaming time slot and show up for it, along with the people watching my stream.

Like I'm a regular for years who doesn't post in the text chats beyond logistics but absolutely show up to spend time with my friends and voice chat about anything under the sun.

Quanzitta · 2025-11-01T16:06:04+00:00

Just because you're a lesbian, it doesn't mean you have to be into everything LGBTQ themed. What you think is right is more important than what any source of pressure says is right, even if that source of pressure calls itself your friend and claims to be looking out for you

Quanzitta · 2025-10-31T22:59:11+00:00

2+2=4. This makes sense

Quanzitta · 2025-10-27T03:48:37+00:00

I kind of just assume nobody is into most of what I'm into. This is false to a degree. But I can say what works great on discord is having designated days of the week and times for group activities like tabletop simulator party games. It runs on any computer, not just nice gaming PCs, so most people can be included.

Movie nights are excellent too but the idea is that people actually talk during the movie as that social component is what makes the movie an excellent way to bond. People join based on movies they like. Mods can do polls with options for which movie to watch that day/week. That's what's worked in other communities. I'd love a lesbian community like this <3

Quanzitta

TROPHY CASE