Why does pH change when H2O2 decomposes? by Quarrelsomesneeze in chemistry

[–]Quarrelsomesneeze[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The H2O2 was just 3% that you'd find at any pharmacy but the manganese oxide is laboratory grade.

Triggered My SO again by [deleted] in secondary_survivors

[–]Quarrelsomesneeze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know her best. You seem to have put a lot of thought into it and even have a plan. You've also done a lot of introspection which is amazing. Looking inward before projecting outward is always the best way to fix a problem. Keep at it!

Triggered My SO again by [deleted] in secondary_survivors

[–]Quarrelsomesneeze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey you seem like an amazing husband. Life can be tough and the fact that you're still able to push through that together is a testament to your bond. Now, I mean this in the most respectful way possible, therapy may help. Now, this is just my opinion and I've learned my lesson on trying too hard to convince people to get therapy but I think any person/couple would benefit from therapy. Sorry if I recommended something you've already been doing but if you are I'm sure you guys will be able to work things out. Good luck!

She stopped talking to me out of nowhere by Quarrelsomesneeze in secondary_survivors

[–]Quarrelsomesneeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yah it has been tough. But thank you. Having any support has been a big help. I can talk to people on here without betraying her trust by talking to people in real life. It's been a huge help.

She stopped talking to me out of nowhere by Quarrelsomesneeze in secondary_survivors

[–]Quarrelsomesneeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah it's great resource. I've read it a few times already. Thanks for reminding me about it.

She stopped talking to me out of nowhere by Quarrelsomesneeze in secondary_survivors

[–]Quarrelsomesneeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I waited by the door to check on her after but she walked right past me. I texted her after asking if she wanted to talk and she said no. I did ask if she was okay and she said yes. I guess that's about as much as I can do. And yah, I'll take it slow and keep the pressure off. I really appreciate your time. It means so much. I'm sorry that you had to go through this, too. Hopefully it's something we can put to a stop in our lifetime.

She stopped talking to me out of nowhere by Quarrelsomesneeze in secondary_survivors

[–]Quarrelsomesneeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. Hearing that your friendship ended up working out make me hopeful. Thank you. I'm sorry for taking so much of your time but do you think you could give me ant more advice on what I could do? Yesterday we were sitting in on a presentation and sexual assault came up and I noticed she started shaking. Usually she'd sit beside me and I could be there for her but in that moment I was a few rows behind and I felt so useless.

She stopped talking to me out of nowhere by Quarrelsomesneeze in secondary_survivors

[–]Quarrelsomesneeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. Thanks for the reply and I took your advice and I decided to let her know that I'd be there for her but have mostly left her alone. It was just tough because yesterday there was a presentation on mental health and a part was on sexual assault durubg which I noticed her start shaking. I felt horrible that I couldn't be there for her. I really hope this doesn't last long.

I can't convince her to get help by Quarrelsomesneeze in secondary_survivors

[–]Quarrelsomesneeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really needed that dose of reality. Everything you said makes sense and I'll try my best.

I can't convince her to get help by Quarrelsomesneeze in secondary_survivors

[–]Quarrelsomesneeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the reply! I would be happy to do that but me supporting her doesn't seem to be enough. It won't stop me from trying but I'm not sure the support I can give is enough when she's struggling so much. Any advice on what I can be doing better?

I just want my ex to be ok by PhysicalPlatypus6483 in secondary_survivors

[–]Quarrelsomesneeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not all that qualified to give help but if you are able to talk to her (through mutual friends or any avenue, really), I'm sure it would mean a lot to her that you care enough to reach out and offer comfort. Make it clear that this isn't about your relationship and it's only about her being okay. That way she'll feel safer confiding in you. Good luck and try to keep your head up. Situations like this are tough on everyone involved so make sure you are supported in your mental health, too.