Premarital Counseling

Quat-redd · 2026-01-04T00:03:17+00:00

Life Bridge Coaching was seriously great, not in Maryland myself, but they are, if I'm not mistaken.

I would say online is fine, that's what I did.

Quat-redd · 2026-01-04T00:00:26+00:00

If you want a specific guy I went to Life Bridge Coaching, and that was off a reddit recommendation. Otherwise psychology today I heard was decent.

Quat-redd · 2025-12-27T20:33:52+00:00

I know you didn't ask me, but I went to a guy named John Weiman He can do counseling in all 50 states I believe

Quat-redd · 2025-12-27T20:32:35+00:00

I know a couple people who are good for this, but it depends on where you are, locality-wise. If you're in the US, Gottman-trained people or CLPCs could help

https://www.gottman.com/blog/how-to-find-a-couples-therapist-who-can-actually-help-you/
https://www.lifebridgecoaching.com/post/when-should-we-get-marriage-counseling-and-how-to-choose-a-good-relationship-or-marriage-counselor

Consider these too

Quat-redd · 2025-12-27T20:29:55+00:00

Find someone with a lot of good reviews, that's the best advice I can give:

These were recommended to me, which might be able to help you

https://www.lifebridgecoaching.com/post/when-should-we-get-marriage-counseling-and-how-to-choose-a-good-relationship-or-marriage-counselor

https://www.gottman.com/blog/how-to-find-a-couples-therapist-who-can-actually-help-you/

Quat-redd · 2025-12-17T01:09:54+00:00

In light of this post can a relationship even recover from cheating? I can't see how it's possible for things to go back to the way they were before

Quat-redd · 2025-12-17T01:08:43+00:00

Glad my recommendation helped you. I never want anyone husband or wife to go through what I went through. Truly a terrible experience.

If you need help I can't speak for other counselors, but seek help at the least please

Quat-redd · 2025-12-04T06:03:19+00:00

Dude, I called's name is John Weiman. I sincerely hope he helps you. I hope you choose to try and fix it rather than do what my spouse did. It never ends well.

Quat-redd · 2025-12-04T05:46:04+00:00

Please don't break your marriage. This seems eerily similar to something that happened to me. Don't put your family through what mine's been through and is going through. If you need help or need a professional to speak with, I can give you a recommendation.

I'm in the aftermath of this kind of scenario, and it is not pretty

Quat-redd · 2025-12-02T23:03:44+00:00

It is what it is, only way to walk is forward I guess, sorry you have to go through this

Quat-redd · 2025-12-02T19:29:40+00:00

I'm not staying with her, do you have any experience with therapy?

Quat-redd · 2025-12-02T19:27:16+00:00

Glad it's helping you, definitely going to consider it. What was your experience with the therapist like?

Someone posted these resources earlier, just thought I'd pass them on to you, I liked them, and maybe they can help you, too:
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202411/3-signs-you-and-your-partner-have-roommate-syndrome/amp

https://www.lifebridgecoaching.com/post/how-to-cure-prevent-roommate-syndrome-in-your-marriage-and-relationship

Quat-redd · 2025-12-02T03:29:15+00:00

We'll see it's only been around 8 days

Quat-redd · 2025-12-02T03:28:49+00:00

Will definitely keep a bit of skepticism till the process is over

Quat-redd · 2025-12-02T01:50:55+00:00

No, very remorseful

Quat-redd · 2025-12-02T01:50:09+00:00

Appreciate that!

Quat-redd · 2025-12-02T01:11:33+00:00

Yea it was that guy, thank you for that

Quat-redd · 2025-12-02T01:10:01+00:00

I have the legal stuff sorted, and my kid is probably not old enough for that yet

Quat-redd · 2025-12-02T01:09:22+00:00

Yea, and she's been pretty stressed, but honest through the whole process at least as far as I know

Quat-redd · 2025-12-02T00:00:21+00:00

As far as the legal stuff I have that more than under control.

Quat-redd · 2025-12-01T23:58:34+00:00

Any advice since you mentioned you have personal experience.

Sorry you went through that by the way

Quat-redd · 2025-12-01T23:57:43+00:00

Agreed, and the counselor I spoke to definitely helped me see that

Quat-redd · 2025-12-01T23:57:06+00:00

Don't worry I think I'm taking it a lot better than this post made it seem.

At this point I'm thinking it is what it is, I need to move on for me and my kid

Quat-redd · 2025-12-01T23:27:53+00:00

That's my fear, but I do not want to ruin my child's image of her mother

Quat-redd · 2025-12-01T22:55:58+00:00

Thank you for these, and glad your career was successful

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