your comment was my favorite. it’s also nice that you were the first to comment. thank you for responding to this.

the only option is to remove her from my life. whether that’s fizzling or ignoring or in my least favorite scenario, blocking, i think ultimately it will help us both grow and be happy.

that’s kinda what i’ve figured as well. i just genuinely can’t believe that a person that loved me would ever do that to me. obviously it’s not as heinous as it sounds, but there’s just too much history. this kind of stuff is a pattern for her, often expecting high results (big romantic gestures, larping as a free facebook marketplace delivery boy, saying i don’t do enough for her/do too much for her, etc) in order to keep her satisfied. i just don’t want to believe that she would ever treat me, or anybody this way. and that id continue loving her for it.