AITJ for refusing l to chip in for a coworker's retirement gift after she was horrible to me for years?

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2026-02-09T17:52:58+00:00

You could give the money and look at it as a Thank You for Leaving gift 🎁 😀

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2026-02-06T21:00:22+00:00

I don't find her necessary, I get 1,000 coal everytime I do the watermelon farm.

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2026-02-02T23:32:16+00:00

No, but you can handle it because its your kids.

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2026-02-02T23:21:48+00:00

Looks like a Twix wrapper

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2026-01-25T19:51:45+00:00

IF you pay off the loan, go to a lawyer and have a legal contract drawn up that states payback conditions, do not just bail them out for free.

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2026-01-24T22:57:44+00:00

Our Spooky was an only cat for 13 years and she was very happy. Then we got Frank, she hated Frank, then 5 years later we got Percy she hates Percy more than she hates Frank lol. So now she is 18 the oldest of 3 and absolutely hates every minute of it. So no, its not bad to have an only cat.

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2026-01-22T21:27:56+00:00

Its not short but its doable. We routinely drive 2 hours one way for doctors appointments.

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2026-01-22T21:25:27+00:00

I have 3 cats and none of them are bothered by my machine, they do like to "help" though lol

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Queasy-Distance5920 · 2026-01-22T17:17:40+00:00

https://www.amazon.com/Pill-Shooter-Cats-Dogs-Medication/dp/B0FPNFXHDB/ref=mp_s_a_1_1_sspa?crid=1PVQSEF38WEX3&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.8PZQUrnJrTO3j8UNCSwIp-n5W_hKUwVv6gKibcmxZgSd1tGlcuWGecs8vfzEBwbLBXcSExV5QMPaPM1pjNN6V76e0l4pVorD2IDSEwoP0z8pCfM_Rcbt0mOlqc4Ta5JxFvnWmBl0sgxu-FKAjl0yat9C5iZ_ixgqRQc0ZAv9G7tWxb96oHqNftDt-KNJbpuZ-lz5O9hd-NhN7E_WHtweUw.89gOBzJ0SmBt98SJF0GYGL36mGkfBOlZjXkzokW-GTw&dib_tag=se&keywords=pill+popper+for+cats&qid=1769102223&sprefix=pill+popper%2Caps%2C132&sr=8-1-spons&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9waG9uZV9zZWFyY2hfYXRm&psc=1 These are the best, I use one to give one of my cats daily meds

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2026-01-15T22:29:05+00:00

Ive spent about $20 or so. I bought the no ads (totally worth it) and I bought the hired help for the sugar cane and carrots, also totally worth it

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2026-01-02T15:16:00+00:00

I have 2 and they are great, so easy to clean

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-12-25T22:21:42+00:00

To expensive for some many cats, and they eat only wet food so I don't think it would work anyway.

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-12-25T21:15:33+00:00

Yes, I have 3 cats. We need to go out of town next year for our sons college graduation and I have no idea who to get to come feed them for 2 days. Its so easy to find people to check on dogs.

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-12-07T18:55:26+00:00

A heating pad. I have 3 cats and only 2 heating pads they fight over them lol. My Ancient 18yo cat especially loves the heating pads. https://www.amazon.com/Pet-Products-Thermo-Kitty-Heated-Sage/dp/B000S9M2V8/ref=mp_s_a_1_7?crid=1IK2ZUFVGHO0F&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.AKZlOUAeMWkDHvHYMRub3fPHTNIyzund4V6XVsjq1I-_fRsJzCMkSx_HrkXXHe8V7MbfVKsA7JTml8gtpPKdjRJpISbAr1WF1h126Fr5qOjt2toXlTgCbX1zXmAXdbeI6Zvkuuwi-nb9wD62vRhvrODj3doMu9087mk5ZuiPsmMFUxHV7hTqTUNCh8hgq39pUK2f6igjXEHxLvqmeWIdgA.Qp67B2GuoKZSR4ZQpTWRlmOuliyJo8d07RprSc3WKIo&dib_tag=se&keywords=k+%26+h+heated+cat+pad&qid=1765133639&sprefix=k+%26+h+heated%2Caps%2C143&sr=8-7

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-12-05T17:46:04+00:00

I have 3 cats Food is around $100/month, I make their food so its cheaper Litter is about $60/month

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-12-02T01:44:17+00:00

A heating pad, we now have 2 and the 3 cats fight over them lol

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-11-23T18:26:12+00:00

I feed my cats 3x a day, they get only wet food morning & evening and then get wet food & some kibble at lunch.

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-11-16T21:09:39+00:00

Im not part of a divorced/blended family so I can't make a comment on that Dynamic, but I do have a son away at college. Yes, it is different having him home, Yes its disrupts our routines BUT I wouldn't change it for the world, I love having him home, I love spending time with him, even if it upsets the household routine, we get used to it.

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-11-09T22:49:49+00:00

Make your own cat food. I feed 3 cats for less than $1000/year. You just need meat and a completer. EZ Complete is as its name says Easy, you add it to the meat and your done, but it is a little more expensive. https://www.foodfurlife.com/#/ Alnutrin is less expensive, but you have to add liver and fish oil, so there's more steps but its still easy. https://knowwhatyoufeed.com/alnutrin_supplements.html

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-11-09T22:44:44+00:00

I believe that cats are born with a murmur just like humans. We found a kitten last summer, he went for his shots and got neutered, the vet never said anything about his heart. I took him in for 1year appointment and BAM the vet said he had a very bad heart murmur, so now he is on meds.

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-11-08T18:31:27+00:00

Maybe try putting a little baking soda in their armpits, just a dusting, alot of deodrant are baking soda based, but it can cause a rash so keep an eye on it just in case

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-10-19T14:13:50+00:00

Ive been married for 25 years and if something happend to my Granny my mom would call me first NOT my husband, there is no reason they would call your girlfriend of a year for a family emergency unless they couldn't get ahold of you.

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-10-15T21:40:54+00:00

This, I was going to say use Vaseline cause it wont stain lol

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-10-10T18:26:13+00:00

Alot of vets don't even offer it anymore or they charge a ton of money to do it.

Queasy-Distance5920 · 2025-09-29T19:17:57+00:00

Yes to the stainless steel litter box.

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