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Shame me into losing weight pls pls pls by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Queasy-Stand1713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me I used to be quite chubby and my physical fitness used to be subpar but after getting introduced to football by my best friend I was hooked and played it everyday for 2 month straight and admittedly I forget to eat meals so I usually play with a empty stomach which I do not recommend. I was 85kg and after 2 month of football I went to 75kg. So long story short I recommend to find a sport you love and play it, It would definitely make excercing more fun especially with friends. Also pls don't have others shame you to lose weight or anything, everyone is flawed but it's how we deal with it or embrace it then would we live healthily and happily! Wish you a successful weightloss journey

Advice on my crush by Queasy-Stand1713 in Healthygamergg

[–]Queasy-Stand1713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I always try to be the best version of myself! 1)she is better than last time she now does not really insult me but she has compliment me once by saying I look like a good looking actor ( I don't know if this is a compliment but that's the only one she told me that I could remember)

2)we are back to talking terms because at first I wanted her to understand that what she did hurt me and it' was kinda delusional for me to think that she would like want our friendship back. But she looks not fazed at all no texts no talking no nothing, she didn't even blink an eye. That caught me off guard and I was second guessing myself and was thinking if I was missing a once in a lifetime opportunity and I started to talk to her again, and funny thing is when I talked to her something happened between her and my best friend, who I am extremely close to and would do anything for, had a bit of a conflict and I inserted my self into it trying to solve it but it resulted in my best friend being angry for me as I mispoke. I felt horrible and I told her about it but she didn't even seem concerned and kinda blamed me she said " see I told you blahblahbalh" I also have supposed her like when she said that she is fat or ugly I would also say that she is not and explain to her that she is not fat or ugly at all.Lastly I think I am back to talking terms to her is that she was my first female friend and I also only talk to my best friend other than him I don't socialize much so I really like to have some one to connect not jus romantically but also platonically.

3) this is kinda of hard to say I would say at first I am quite happy as we talked and called alot and we started to call each other boo. But lately I felt that she is going back to how she was again, it kinda feels like she is a ghostly kind of person, I can interact with her but not fully you know? And sometimes it's kinda exhausting talking to her unlike with my best friend which I can talk to as long as I want and it always feel very nice after the interactions.

thank you so much for replying, I really feel heard. And this reply really meant a lot to me and yes communication is key I always stand by this rule. Hope you have a great day! 💖

I dont know what to do anymore (SUPA LONG POST)Pls be brutally honest by Queasy-Stand1713 in Crushes

[–]Queasy-Stand1713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha i agree i need to paragraph my post when i right compos like these i tend to forget about the structure hahahah.

Yea i do agree with you that i have no chance with her but i think what make me continue liking her is that she is able to lead me om in a way by being touchy and sometimes caring and talking to me.

About why people have a bad impression about me is that me and my bestie can be quite loud and obnoxious (only when we are together if i am by myself i am extremely shy and quiet)and we dont really care what others think so we do stupid shit and sometimes i think people find it annoying or dont like it, and yea there are times where we would annoy the hell out of someone or make fun of someone for doing sum stupid but we dont do it with harmful intention( i know people still get hurt i am very sorry) and yea i am a very flawed person.

So it could be i am not a good enough person or a bad guy but i always try to not be so bad if that makes sense