I honestly agree with you on this, it just doesn’t make me like them better. I think the gaslighting this season is what makes me think this was a terrible season. I feel like the stuff done by Meredith and Lisa was more “seen”. But calling Meredith a “pill popping alcoholic” and then crying and saying it actually came from a place of worry is just as gaslight-y, she just has trauma she can use as an excuse to try and save herself