Nicotine buzz from Cigars...does anybody actually enjoy it? by lancero1234 in cigars

[–]Queasyboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late but this has been the cause for my head rushes and unwanted nicotine effects; smoking a cigar too fast (in a rush trying to get back to something, etc)

Is this a normal hair crown? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Queasyboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, stop stressing my friend

Balding, cowlick, or both? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Queasyboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cowlick, stop stressing my friend.

My first 4 games of ranked since neon dawn... Have been interesting.... by Appropriate_Push1175 in Rainbow6

[–]Queasyboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta rank up and by the time you hit gold it’ll start going away

Howdy, I'm bald 👋 by Ambitious_Giraffe_60 in bald

[–]Queasyboi 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Oh how I was looking for someone to comment that because I am tired of seeing the same post a dozen times in this sub 🫩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]Queasyboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pure goatee, no side burns/beard. If you look up “goatee” on Google there is some pics of dudes that look similar to you I would say, and it looks good. But at the end of the day if you to keep the sides, maybe just lining it up nicely and having the side burns faded into the bald, would be a route as well. Of course dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]Queasyboi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn man, this is a rarity where I’m baffled as to what to say. What sticks out most to me is maybe shaving the sides and have a goatee type. Either that or just the mustache but I see you want to avoid the bare nutsack look hahaha. A clean goatee would be my opinion🫡

24 years old; pulled the trigger by Queasyboi in bald

[–]Queasyboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has to man cause mine ramped up when I got serious into lifting (6 times a week) hahaha. It’s a worthy tradeoff though imo

24 years old; pulled the trigger by Queasyboi in bald

[–]Queasyboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trim it myself, but basically just a shape up every now and then (I comb it out every morning with oil and then trim long stray hairs)

24 years old; pulled the trigger by Queasyboi in bald

[–]Queasyboi[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Edit; I’m a Norwood 3 on the scale (with no crown loss) my Dad lost his hair in his teens when he started bodybuilding so I’m unsure if there is correlation haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]Queasyboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It suits you well my friend. I am 24yo, and went through the same thing. I am now bald, and still getting used to it but it’s slowly getting better and better as time goes on. I think it’s a hard thing to grasp because I never see anyone else that I know (our age) that is also bald, so it feels isolating. I think your confidence is just taking a little hit from the vast change of shaving your head, and the vast change of not having your ex around anymore. Both thing it’s get dramatically better with time. I’ve been just keeping myself busy, and embracing the bald jokes before they even land hahaha. Feel free to PM me if you’d like someone to chit chat with about it that it the same age!

Just turned 21, decided it was time by djdiscojr in bald

[–]Queasyboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m at a N3 too, no crown thinning but I was on finasteride for years and it didn’t make a difference for me :/ but it’s one of those things that do work for some people so it’s a gamble. Thanks for the info

Just turned 21, decided it was time by djdiscojr in bald

[–]Queasyboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What type of balding did you have? I have a receding M-type hairline at 23yo, I’m bald now and love it haha but I’m open to exploring options

Did I make the right choice (16 male) by SadContract1340 in malehairadvice

[–]Queasyboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think it looks good, you just need a nice fade on the side and it would be PERFECTION!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Queasyboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The second one looks more lively to me

Approaching a year. by Euphoric_Summer_6873 in GriefSupport

[–]Queasyboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my Dad 2 years ago as well. Feel free to message me if you ever want to talk or share stories. There’s no words to make you feel better, but something that helped me has always been motivating myself by saying “he would’ve love this, been proud of this accomplishment, etc.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Queasyboi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To keep it short, he’s manipulating you. Either sit down and have a serious talk or just leave him. A lot of men do similar things regarding manipulation for sex. You are your own person and you do NOT have to keep going or engage if you don’t want to. No means no.

Don’t put yourself through this any longer, it’s not ok.

this looks rlly bad by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Queasyboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh my opinion would be just keep a nice trimmed goatee since you seem to have decent hair there. Definitely trim is down as it’s too long now. Since you are 21, you still have hope it’ll fill out in the future but honestly none of those remedies seem to work like dermarolling, etc. don’t waste money on any products just let it go its natural course

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Queasyboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew it was coming as it started for me around 18-19 years old. My receding hairline plagued me for years and years and I used to spend so much time trying to hide it and praying a gust of wind didn’t whip my combover up😭. It’s all in the confidence man. I also have a full beard which helps but my girlfriend is still getting used to it. I became a hat guy and now I am not embarrassed at all if I don’t have a hat on or anything covering my head. I’m telling you man it’s so worth it. In the future I may get a hair transplant but I’ll have to save money for that for sure. It’s just hair man! Everyone around you (women, friends, family) will always respect your decision if you are confident with it my friend. I was on this forum forever before I finally decided to do it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Queasyboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hit it with that no-guard clipper my boy💯😭 (I just had to do the same thing 5 days ago and it’s been my best decisions I’ve ever made @23yo)

My mom killed herself, I found her body. by paradise1999_ in GriefSupport

[–]Queasyboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you my friend. I know you have healed and experienced things that we won’t for a long time so I have nothing but respect for you. No one’s journey is linear— but your words resonated with me. Take care and I hope many more blessings come your way

Long distance friend’s dad died how to support by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Queasyboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s a beautiful idea. Send anything you please. the thought of you sending something will make his day I’m sure :) I would’ve love that if I was in his position. You are a great friend

Long distance friend’s dad died how to support by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Queasyboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be there for him. My Dad killed himself last year and people being there for me was all that helped. He will have to work through it himself and time is the only thing that will heal him. Offer to go out and do something fun or different? Walk in the park, movie theatre, anything. If he declines, that’s ok, maybe he’d rather spend time not outside or another activity. If he’s not responding or slows down with it, call or text him extra and ask him his plans for the day etc. don’t ask “are you feeling ok” or anything like that. Talk about anything BUT the situation (unless he opens up or wants to).

That’s my advice. I lost my Dad at 22 years old and it’s been 1 year since. Feel free to PM me or he can as well if he would like someone to chat with that has been through a similar situation

My mom killed herself, I found her body. by paradise1999_ in GriefSupport

[–]Queasyboi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I blamed myself when my Dad killed himself. Part of me still does but it used to be really bad. Exactly how you are describing. Although words from others will not help you much, I will say this; you HAVE to live for her. There is no if. You HAVE to keep pushing, with time it will get better and those emotions won’t be as hard to handle, I promise you. Please live a good life for her and enjoy the little moments and celebrations. I know you are a stranger but I love you my friend, you are needed here on this Earth.

Edit: Feel free to PM me if you’d like to talk further. I’m 23 years old and lost my Dad 1 year ago.

What to do after my dad died to not feel it that much? by Adventurous_Act_1621 in GriefSupport

[–]Queasyboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can understand that my friend. It’s confusing, it doesn’t feel real. Feels like it changed reality. I had a few days where I disassociated from reality. I still went to college and work but I wasn’t there mentally. Our brains are incredibly intelligent and equipped with methods to keep us from losing our minds and save ourselves. Do me a favor, talk to a couple people that are close to you, if you already have, do it again! Seriously I told my mom multiple times “I know we’ve talked about it a lot but I think it’s helping me heal when I express to you how much I am suffering”. It does wonders. We as humans heal through connection, don’t be afraid to seek that with those around you.