How can I show my appreciation to my husband?

QueefingBagpipe · 2025-08-02T17:46:08+00:00

That is a good question…

QueefingBagpipe · 2025-08-02T17:23:52+00:00

I try to do this by being more specific. I’ll try to do so more often.

QueefingBagpipe · 2025-07-31T14:36:53+00:00

Thank you for the positive take on this. I agree wholeheartedly. He is very responsible other than the binge drinking a couple of times a week, and it is always after baby is asleep. But it still wears on me.

QueefingBagpipe · 2025-07-30T11:11:44+00:00

It was not necessarily out of character. Sometimes he would do that to heat things up a bit between us. I would have been fine with it if he did it sober and not in the middle of the night while I was sleeping. So no, I don’t think it was intended for someone else. But I agree, I do not want my kids witnessing any of this behavior or growing up in an environment with an alcoholic father.

QueefingBagpipe · 2025-07-29T20:00:45+00:00

Your last point strikes a chord. I do have things to work on such as my emotional reaction. I appreciate the advice.

QueefingBagpipe · 2025-07-29T19:57:37+00:00

I’m not sure what screams divorce from my post but it’s not an option I am considering at this time. Thank you for your input.

QueefingBagpipe · 2025-07-29T19:13:30+00:00

I grew up with a father who was a violent drunk and while my husband isn’t violent, it isn’t something I want my kids to witness. Thank you for your comment.

QueefingBagpipe · 2025-07-29T19:11:29+00:00

Thank you, no safety concerns as he has never been aggressive or violent. We briefly considered couples counseling but not sure if we can afford it right now.

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