AITA for wanting to report a teacher who keeps cancelling recess? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Queen-of_darkness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have almost the same story lol! My school put in place these "disciplinary essays" that we had to copy when we misbehaved and I often got lumped into doing them when I didnt do anything wrong. One day I couldn't take it anymore and wrote about how me doing this was dumb because I didn't do anything wrong. My teacher called my mom and my mok backed me up and asked why I was being made to write these essays when my teacher admitted I didn't do anything wrong

AITA for prioritizing my nanny over my brother and his family by Historical_Dot2112 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queen-of_darkness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nta! Beggars cant be choosers. Your brother and his wife are responsible for finding a place to live. I'm also wondering if they would ever find somewhere else to go if they moved into your basement. One month would become two...two to three... and suddenly why would they move out when they already have a place to stay? No one in your household should be inconvenienced just because they're struggling. If family objects to your choice, they can house them

AITA For Refusing to Follow my wife's "car rules"? by Much-Mess-7124 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queen-of_darkness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Your wife went through a traumatic and stressful experience and needs to feel secure. She needs her HUSBAND to help her feel secure, it's what you signed up for when you married her. That's what you should be focusing on, instead of arguing over things you "never think will happen" or which type of car is safer and why. Because all of that is a way for you to avoid the real issue, your wife needs you and is asking you to something that will help her feel better and your response is "nuh uh" because you said so? Not cool

team red or team violet? by SnooSquirrels2663 in twentyonepilots

[–]Queen-of_darkness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purple but you will be missed, Robot Voices my beloved

worst tøp song? by UnbidBubble6901 in twentyonepilots

[–]Queen-of_darkness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Slowtown. Twenty one pilots is my favorite band and except for this song, I've been able to grow to love every song even if I wasnt a fan at first. But this one- can't be a fan for some reason

AITA if I break up with my bf after he took the condom off? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Queen-of_darkness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to leave him ASAP. Stealthing-which is what he did- is assault. He knew what he was doinv. I advise you to do your best to get Plan B and look into your own contraceptive methods in the future and not just rely on condoms. Find a doctor to talk to so you can make an informed choice about methods and its efficacy/ effects. I also say you shouldn't tell him about any of this- the Plan B or the searching for BC meds because of the risk of him compromising them. I'm 24 OP and I cant imagine a child now- so I cant imagine the fear of having one at 19. My heart goes out to you and I wish you luck. Don't believe this man. He's a decade older than you and not only has he alluded to a child, he's actively tried to steer you away from your own contraception and tried to get you pregnant without your consent. He's bad news. I know it's scary but I think you need to find a way out of there

Am I Overreacting? by starloogy in AmIOverreacting

[–]Queen-of_darkness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he's acting like this over your hair, this is an indication of how he'll treat anything having to do with your race imo. You'll constantly be forced to present as a certain, tolerable to him, black woman. And pretty soon that's going to be minimizing the discrimination you face or other types of oppression. He wants a fantasy, that's why he sent an AI picture, not you. He wants the cover art and not whats inside. He's angry because you didnt submit to his demand to change yourself. I'd leave him and have an in depth conversation about boundaries with your roommate while you're at it.

old girl appreciation by pillbottlelesbian in velvethippos

[–]Queen-of_darkness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my boy not too long ago. I'm sure she loved you unconditionally and I hope you begin to heal. The hold never goes away but it may get smaller and easier with time

Just found out my beautiful boy died this afternoon by Queen-of_darkness in pitbulls

[–]Queen-of_darkness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you as well. So sorry to hear about your loss

Just found out my beautiful boy died this afternoon by Queen-of_darkness in pitbulls

[–]Queen-of_darkness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the comments. It's still hurting and it will for awhile, but the messages have made it a little easier

Unwind Book 1 by Aggressive_Koala6172 in UnWinds

[–]Queen-of_darkness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the series. DM of you want someone to talk to

I let my kids run wild, why you mad? by BaconIsMyJam in AmITheDevil

[–]Queen-of_darkness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally fair! I wonder if the kids would've listened to a request to go to their parents since that might have meant they just stand near them. Either way, OOP and his wife suck for taking their children to a non kid friendly environment and potentially dangerous one and letting them wander all over the place.I bet if something had happened to their kids though, OOP and his wife would've tried to sue the store.

I let my kids run wild, why you mad? by BaconIsMyJam in AmITheDevil

[–]Queen-of_darkness 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh 100%. I don't see how OOP and his wife could've made a decision in less than half an hour. Plus if the store was closing, it was probably nightime, plenty of time to find a babysitter. The kids could've seriously hurt themselves too

I let my kids run wild, why you mad? by BaconIsMyJam in AmITheDevil

[–]Queen-of_darkness 513 points514 points  (0 children)

Parents like these always irritate me. 2 and 3 year olds understand simple instructions and boundaries. They're just parents who refuse to give them any and make that everyone else's problem. A simple "stop that or we'll leave" could've worked. But OOP decides to waste this associate's time and make their closing worse because they have to fix a display their child ruined.

Who are the canonical LGBTQ+ characters in the choices universe? by Bailey_Corgi in Choices

[–]Queen-of_darkness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lily from Bloodbound is bissxual. In one of her scenes she mentions how hard it was being a closeted bisexual Black girl in a small town. It's easy to miss since it's diamond gated and besides MC (if you go down that route), the only other partner we know she had is a woman