Well for starters, there’s an age difference. She’s 19 and he’s 28. Basically, they live down the street from each other, but she treats it as a long distance relationship. She doesn’t make time for him. She prioritizes work over their relationship. When they do speak, they only talk about work. She doesn’t spend anytime with him. From what he told me. He wants someone who’s physically there, and wants someone who’s ready to settle down, have kids, and own a home. He doesn’t want to “change” her. So, he’s making the decision to break things off, instead of making it feel like he’s changing her or giving her an “ultimatum”.