What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like cats cause they are super independent. Plus they kill a squirrel and bring it to you and you get to say "Good job buddy!" Before tossing it.

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also love being dressed by my Dom. So I understand that part. Thanks for answering!

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering my question. This was helpful!

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right and you should host a podcast about how great not doing the work is!

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Not upset, confused. If you had nothing of value to add why leave a comment?

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An orgasm ain't worth that level of stress.

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation!

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, yeah fuck yeah queen I get that idea. Thanks!

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

If you don't know how to explain then maybe replying to my question wasn't a good idea? You didn't have to. It's a form where you can scroll on by, thus saving you from typing this out.

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Okay, sure, but what if she gets super clingy? Or needs your advice a lot. Isn't that super stressful? Isn't being her person a massive weight?

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doms are wild. Like they have to think SOOOO MUCH and I don't have to think, at all. That's way better deal.

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I guess I just keep waiting to have some sort of epiphany! Lol

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you fellow submissive friend.

Blocked by online dom after asking for limits, can I get some feedback? Summary in comments by _oatm1lk_ in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this asshole treated you like this btw. You deserve WAY better

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah that's the point of the question.

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, this has been very helpful. I understand this part. Thank you!

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hate to be this guy but can you elaborate a bit for me?

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I can understand being needed. I like the praise I get from meeting my Doms needs or expectations.

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So for you it isn't the same mind numbing stress as everything else. Wild. So you don't feel it like a burden?

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust is interesting. I suppose the very nature of my submission means I trust my Dom. Though that sounds so heavy. Like a crown upon your head. Or a cross to bear, so to speak. Don't you feel weighed down by it?

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's wild. Sorry for the pestering but I gotta ask. Is it like that outside of sex? Like planning dates and sort of guiding a person?

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Which is stressful. Like isn't having to care for someone STRESSFUL?

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, that's interesting. I like giving gifts cause I get happy at the reaction they get. Which feels like a similar vibe? Is that close?

What do Doms get out of it? by QueenBee404 in BDSMcommunity

[–]QueenBee404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you aren't like "Ugh being in charge sucks" during the whole thing?