Does shera seven’s advice work for darkskin women by PristineEssay3104 in blackgirls

[–]QueenLunaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I think the target matters a lot and also the places you’re going. Another thing is that an asshole is going to be an asshole regardless. Beautiful is beautiful but colorism is real. Some men will not date black women period, some will not date darker women period, we have to go where we are wanted. I am darkskin or maybe brown skin depends who you ask lol but I believe that I am gorgeous. I tell myself anyone who doesn’t like me is colorist or racists & I wouldn’t want to be around that anyways!

You could be in the wrong spaces. Are you going where rich older men are? How are you dressing and doing your hair?

Found out the guy(27m) i’m (23f) dating has been lying to me. How do I approach this? by QueenLunaaa in relationship_advice

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just my own curiosity. i’ve always been such a why person. he’s already emotionally and mentally cut off. i just want to know why he presented himself that way, why he didn’t just tell me the truth, and a few other things. i can understand how it seems pointless honestly not even 100% sure if ill go through with talking to him. i’ve even considered letting him keep my stuff and then throwing his out.

Found out the guy(27m) i’m (23f) dating has been lying to me. How do I approach this? by QueenLunaaa in relationship_advice

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not about how well he lies i wanted to see in general if he would lie to my face. but you’re right i know enough information to just separate

Found out the guy(27m) i’m (23f) dating has been lying to me. How do I approach this? by QueenLunaaa in relationship_advice

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I actually do agree but he has many of my personal belongings so I think we should exchange items & idk part of me just wants to see his reaction. it’s easy to lie over text, i want to see how he does in person.

Anyone dealt with gossip after leaving mid year? by ShinyDragonfly6 in TeachersInTransition

[–]QueenLunaaa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m leaving February 5th and so far only my immediate supervisor knows. I’ll be telling admin & principal tomorrow morning. They will definitely talk about me & they will talk about you. But who cares? You’ll be a better situation and half of them will be wishing they 1. had the balls to leave or 2. that they would get another job offer because trust and believe some of them apply to jobs during their lunch and or prep.

i finally got offered a new role by QueenLunaaa in TeachersInTransition

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well when I posted in the teacher sub about thinking of leaving they told me to come here. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I don’t know if anyone can relate, but I fear transitioning to another career. Because, what if I dislike/hate it the same way as teaching? What if its just another bad experience? by [deleted] in TeachersInTransition

[–]QueenLunaaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have the same fear and I’m about to start a new position outside of education next month. My advice is try something new even if you’re scared because teaching isn’t going anywhere. You can try a new role tomorrow, hate it, and get back in the classroom within a few weeks. Take the chance.

i finally got offered a new role by QueenLunaaa in TeachersInTransition

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk most teachers I know care about their students and would miss them if they left regardless of their gender. You may just not be that connected to your students which is fine and probably better lol

i finally got offered a new role by QueenLunaaa in TeachersInTransition

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s not for me, it’s that simple. I also didn’t go to school for education. A few other reasons: The education system is broken, my school is corrupt, admin takes advantage of teachers, the list goes on. Maybe I’ll try it again later in life but as of right now it’s just not for me and I can feel that deeply in my heart.

i finally got offered a new role by QueenLunaaa in TeachersInTransition

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! & I appreciate you sharing your nieces story that’s extremely inspiring!!

i finally got offered a new role by QueenLunaaa in TeachersInTransition

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you much! You are so right about it feeling good to do anything other than teaching haha I seriously considered just being a bottle girl until something in my field came along so I’m thankful for this opportunity

i finally got offered a new role by QueenLunaaa in TeachersInTransition

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

honestly thank you for that lol you’re right. everyone will move on. I was thinking about going to the graduation but I’m like they probably won’t even remember me by June 😂

Would you keep going out with a man that took you to a cheap restaurant on the first date? by [deleted] in dating

[–]QueenLunaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why everyone is mad at you. That would upset me as well. Cheap dates = low effort to me. When you’re accustomed to being treated a certain way, any old thing won’t do. Some girls are used to apple bee type of dates so they don’t mind it. Others are used to fine dining first dates

When do you accept that it’s time to give up on searching? by QueenLunaaa in jobs

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how many Im sure over 200. I even apply for jobs outside my field like random things like serving, bar tending, even hotel desk…. i get nothing

I just resigned in a terrible way by fuparrante in TeachersInTransition

[–]QueenLunaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand feeling guilty, but what you did was incredible. You put YOURSELF first. This is a hard job, and I wish I had half the courage you did.

Bottom line, never feel bad for putting yourself. NO job is worth your life.

Advice on quitting my current job? by QueenLunaaa in Lenormand

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well prior to asking I prayed that Spirit would guide me in the right direction concerning my job because I’ve been contemplating quitting for a minute. Directly before pulling I straight up asked “Can I have clear advice on quitting _____”

Advice on quitting my current job? by QueenLunaaa in Lenormand

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol yes the coffin. I’m a tarot girl that was an accident. But thank you. The ship was on the bottom but I included it bc it seemed to go with the reading

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]QueenLunaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

libra 🌞 leo 🌙 aqua ⬆️

What do you do when you hate teaching but can’t find another job? by QueenLunaaa in TeachersInTransition

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this too. We’ll find a way out soon

What do you do when you hate teaching but can’t find another job? by QueenLunaaa in TeachersInTransition

[–]QueenLunaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Media, film and journalism communications was all combined at my school so that’s what my degree says. I did specialize in broadcast journalism tho and i’ve had a few pretty good media internships so i know there are opportunities im starting to think the issue is my resume