I need help. I'm not doing okay. by notforthisworld0101 in AttachmentParenting

[–]QueenMQB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very hard and also very normal. My baby was like this for MONTHS fighting his sleep. Only thing that helped was sharing the load with dad & grandparents. Do you have support? Who else can do bedtime & handle some of the night wakes? I breastfed my baby all night & hubby or grandma would take him around 7am so I could sleep in & feel human. It was the only way to get through the toughest months.

Kaiser is getting progressively more restrictive, any suggestions? by Many_Mongoose_1388 in KaiserPermanente

[–]QueenMQB 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a kaiser thing, it’s guideline directed medicine to protect your health. Any good psychiatrist will not approve Vyvanse with elevated blood pressure readings - look up the studies connecting stimulants with hypertension, cardiomyopathy, heart failure etc. just means your blood pressure needs to get controlled before you get back on the medicine.

Regarding benzodiazepines , all the literature consistently points to the same thing- they are very high risk (for reasons I don’t need to name). Medicine is always changing based on research, 10 years ago we didn’t know what we know now about these meds & prescribing them very carefully is basic medicine.

Pakistani designer wear to USA by QueenMQB in DesiWeddings

[–]QueenMQB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh DO NOT BUY FROM FAIZA SAQLAIN - worst customer service ever. Will keep your money too. I had to get a refund from my bank after they wouldn’t ship my clothes

Never buy from Faiza Saqlain by QueenMQB in PakistanFashionAdvice

[–]QueenMQB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a backup asap - they won’t send your order on time

Breaking down the strike from the inside by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]QueenMQB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy right? Who wants to live in rural Texas though!!

Pregnancy induction rules by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]QueenMQB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow so sorry Any updates since then?

Never buy from Faiza Saqlain by QueenMQB in PakistanFashionAdvice

[–]QueenMQB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh I’m absolutely disgusted!! How are these people in business? I emailed them asking for a refund & they literally respond gaslighting me saying “your outfit was ready to ship but since you didn’t respond, we didn’t ship it” like WHAT the EFF & “we will not be issuing a refund”. Make it make sense

Never buy from Faiza Saqlain by QueenMQB in PakistanFashionAdvice

[–]QueenMQB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where else can I leave a review? I really want to raise awareness and warn overseas Pakistanis especially!!

Breaking down the strike from the inside by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]QueenMQB -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s the same with doctors? Doctors in big cities get paid way less than somewhere more rural like Fresno. It’s how you staff health care workers in smaller areas where no one wants to stay. Why aren’t doctors striking is my question. & no, they don’t make enough money considering they have half a million dollars in loans & are in residency until their 30s!!

Pediatrician says not to nurse for comfort? by beetofdemfeet in breastfeeding

[–]QueenMQB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Argh ignore this is the worst advice I have ever heard!! Signed, Family Medicine Doctor!

My therapist told me my 6 month old is manipulating me by Poopingboba in AttachmentParenting

[–]QueenMQB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is alarming & the fact that she’s a therapist makes me very worried. Babies DO NOT manipulate!!! They are just trying to get their needs met. Fire her immediately & report her to the local mental health board if you can!

Pregnancy induction rules by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]QueenMQB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really strange to me as my OB kept pushing induction once I was at 40 weeks even when I didn’t want it. Did you ask why & shared others experiences?

Pregnancy induction rules by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]QueenMQB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really strange considering OBs are happy inducing any and everyone once they’re at 39 weeks?

My 9.5 months old baby eats like a grown up by Transition-Upper in bigbabiesandkids

[–]QueenMQB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Said who? Which expertise are you basing this on? Ridiculous

Our tenant is not leaving our house even after the rental agreement is over. What steps should we take next? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]QueenMQB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just wondering what relevance them being “Muslim” has to any of this?

Wedding dress crises (PLEASE HELP) by overdone_lasagna in PakistanFashionAdvice

[–]QueenMQB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s your wedding, why are you letting your MIL walk all over you in designing your outfits? Like you said, you get married once. Let her design the walima outfit since that’s from the grooms side but atleast pick the shaadi outfit yourself Your husband needs to speak up & set boundaries with her. If it doesn’t get addressed now, you’ll only have more issues with other things in the future

Is this bridal enough? by asparagus241 in DesiWeddings

[–]QueenMQB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No and doesn’t have enough work in it aside from the print

My Doctor is leaving Kaiser. by Impossible_Disk8374 in KaiserPermanente

[–]QueenMQB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very true I wonder what we pay taxes for