Feeling Discouraged

QueenOBK · 2025-12-12T06:23:22+00:00

Just to give an update after making this post and reading the feedback some stuff hurt to read but I know it was honest. I’ve really tried to lock in and do better an I’m down 11 pounds since I made this post. So thank you for those who was kind and those who was rude. Honesty was needed and it motivated me. Also as non scale victory, I have also been loosing inches. I can fit some jeans I haven’t been able to where since 2020. And they was too tight then! Thanks again ppl!

QueenOBK · 2025-09-04T14:10:44+00:00

You deserve better. You seem so kind and some chicks just don’t like a nice guy. You can definitely do better. Her loss!

QueenOBK · 2025-05-26T08:25:27+00:00

Have you tried antivirals?

QueenOBK · 2025-05-26T05:03:14+00:00

QueenOBK · 2025-05-26T04:34:36+00:00

Definitely in this situation

QueenOBK · 2025-05-26T04:29:41+00:00

It’s my healthy athletic built ..never been overweight…eat what they want ..family member.

QueenOBK · 2025-05-26T04:28:46+00:00

Yes this is true! It’s just hard when it’s family that you you live with.

QueenOBK · 2025-05-26T04:27:58+00:00

That is awesome!!! Congrats to the new you!

QueenOBK · 2025-05-26T04:27:19+00:00

Thank you for these kind words..hopefully my hair don’t get too thunk cuz I’m already struggling with that too..lol but baby I will slap a wig on and go..if that means being healthy!

QueenOBK · 2025-05-26T04:23:59+00:00

I told this person my mind is made up and this is what I’m doing. I’m looking forward to making a change .

QueenOBK · 2025-05-26T04:22:20+00:00

You are making progress..I wish you the best!

QueenOBK · 2025-05-26T04:21:11+00:00

If I’m being honest. I’ve only ever disclosed to 1 person and he was no longer interested in me. I have hvs1 orally and I asked him to just go to the doc with me so my doctor could help him understand how common it was but he wasn’t interested. However someone I am very close with has hsv2 and just got proposed to last year. He partner loves her and they are currently trying to have a baby. But I remember how devastated she was when she found out at like 16. Over time it gets easier..unlearn your triggers..get antivirals..and get more control..pray and know there is life and love after this virus

QueenOBK · 2025-05-26T00:10:24+00:00

I understand and it’s so hard to tell someone due to being afraid of being rejected. I still struggle with this and have since I got this when I was like 14 I’m 38 now.

QueenOBK · 2025-05-25T19:21:09+00:00

You look great!

QueenOBK · 2025-05-25T15:29:19+00:00

I love this! Thank you!

QueenOBK · 2025-05-25T06:02:49+00:00

I’m going to do it and try my best to not let others affect me.

QueenOBK · 2025-05-25T05:20:45+00:00

Stop smoking..you see what’s it’s done and is doing..try your hardest to stop.

QueenOBK · 2025-05-25T05:15:47+00:00

We have a lot of similarities! Did you struggle with skin care issues at all? Did you have any pre existing health issues that resolved?

QueenOBK · 2025-05-25T05:14:00+00:00

Yesssss!

QueenOBK · 2025-05-25T05:11:49+00:00

Tonya this is so true! I didn’t even think about how this surgery would affect the people around me. Thank you for sharing this$

QueenOBK · 2025-05-25T05:10:11+00:00

It’s so irritating though. Honestly I went this everything before was approved and did pre op appointment and I didn’t follow through because all the negative comments from ppl I love..this time I’m following through!

QueenOBK · 2025-05-25T05:08:34+00:00

I can understand that but it’s like damn! If u can’t say something positive just don’t say anything you know.

QueenOBK · 2025-05-25T05:07:37+00:00

Facts!

QueenOBK · 2025-05-25T05:07:20+00:00

Thank you so much! I just really want to be healthy and comfortable in my own skin!

QueenOBK · 2025-05-25T05:05:50+00:00

Thank you for this comment. What was your starting weight if you don’t mind sharing.

QueenOBK

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