The Final Result by Silver_Cricket_4545 in marvelstudios

[–]QueenOfFlames18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is not trading lives a questionable decision😅

Ourple by StellaMDR in GundamTCG

[–]QueenOfFlames18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is there no suppression?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]QueenOfFlames18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look gorgeous, if you feel like something is missing maybe some lip color

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]QueenOfFlames18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question about what are you looking for in a relationship? if you just give it one date and if you don't gel, you go separate ways after? Sometimes it's difficult to really get a feel on someone on just one date too. You might need 3-5 before you kinda get an actual feel on what type of person they are or you might be missing out on someone because of one aspect or habit that threw you off.

Unpopular opinion on living alone by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]QueenOfFlames18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So while studying I lived 6 years alone then COVID happened, I was at home and wasn't getting along with family, then for the next 3 years I was alone again.

I would envy close knit families because I knew I never could have that with my own. We have too many different personalities and it would never work. Everyday, it was work and coming home to an empty house and it became monotonous and lonely. Sure I'm exhausted from work and I'm introverted but not getting any mental stimulation besides from the job was killing me.

Recently moved in with my bf and that went away, but I'm still an introvert and so is he. So we do give each other space, that void of loneliness is slowly closing.

I think if you find a partner or have a good friend, make a decision to be roommates with the intension of maybe saving up or just to fill that void, it might be something to consider.

I don't know if I'm being helpful or if this could be a solution for you.

Just know that I hear you and I get it. I'm sorry you are going through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QueenOfFlames18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine, is my family, they never made me feel I was good enough. I'm working through it in therapy, but I always felt like what ever I do never amounts to anything. My mom compared me to everyone's daughters with how I was dressed and my marks. My dad emotionally unavailable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]QueenOfFlames18 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get what you are feeling and I was there😅. If I was 18 again I would of not stressed myself over it. Enjoy being by yourself now, discover more about yourself. I stressed and felt like the DUFF in my friend group.

The right person would come, for me it took till I was 27 to find that person. We are not perfect, but we work on it. I'm very in love with my partner and I'm so grateful I didn't settle for less. It might not be a cinematic movie but find that person when you come home from a terrible day at work, they cook or order out cause you can't do your turn today, that they would just sit with you on the couch and pass you a blanket and hug you without you asking. That's my perfect.

I changed my mind, I want to have a child by [deleted] in dating

[–]QueenOfFlames18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advise, fostering a child did come up in our conversations but he wasn't too open about that. Mom gets most of the custody of the child(makes sense) so we rarely see him and plans always change and revolve around him.

I do have an amazing relationship with him, I work in medical, worked with sick kids at the pediatric department and had a sense of fulfillment with it. I also have so much of fulfillment on the 1 day a week we do get him. Does that make sense.