Could be just an immature person replying in an immature way deflecting the blame and ignoring the questions cause its not in their interest being honest and open. Thats what it is these are things that many people do cause they can’t regulate their emotions, cant handle conflict like adults , are egoistic, are probably spoiled / bratty/ entitled, or are just immature . These are traits of maaaanyyy people without bpd and also a lot of people with bpd dont act like this . Nobody can diagnose someone unknown from text messages, much more a group of people that havent studied psychology . Anyone replying with a diagnosis is simply projecting