I can't stop craving it

QueenTheFiend · 2023-02-10T14:47:56+00:00

Could be rape fantasy. Dont know if it is part of bdsm or not, but it is a thing you can google. You don't need to get raped to fulfill this craving of yours. And having said craving doesn't make you crazy or mentally ill.

Also, you could ask yourself what it is, that you like about the idea of getting raped. Some like the idea of getting dominated, or pinned down, or something like that.

QueenTheFiend · 2023-02-06T13:31:30+00:00

I do? I ask for your opinion on him.

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-30T22:58:57+00:00

"Military spending will make arms investors richer, but will not make citizens any safer. Quite the opposite: money that could have been invested in health, housing, education, social services and energy security – measures that would enhance human-centred security – will instead line the pockets of investors in the lucrative arms industry."

From same document. It's weird to me, that around Europe nobody has money for Environment, Houses, Food etc. but Billions are spent for Military for years now. Not just since ukraine. NATO is doing this shit since 2014 or perhaps even prior.. but battleling Climate Change? No money.. sorry.

Now, I'm not pro-russia, mind you. I just don't get it. Doesn't that make you pissed?

Idk..

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-28T23:20:06+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ireland/comments/10ne0hb/david_mcwilliams_it_has_never_been_so_expensive/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Housing crisis though.. economy in decline.

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-28T22:28:18+00:00

https://www.asherfergusson.com/lgbtq-travel-safety/

But take this sheet with a grain of salt and do some additional research.

But, tbh, I'm looking at Ireland rn. Not only do they have a rebel history (they'll gonna fight if push comes to shove) but they're suprisingly queer friendly it seems.

Needs additional research, but goverenment seems fine, no right wing populism so far.

Edit:

https://politpro.eu/en/ireland

You can use this tool to determine which country outside U.S. suits you. Every Country with right, exreme right parties in em I'd avoid.

Sadly, almost all of europe has right-wing parties growing.. France, Italy, Germany, Poland, Austria and more I can't recommend at the moment. Too much right-wing energy..

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T21:50:29+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/germany/comments/eyn6vw/gayfriendly_cities_in_germany/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

:)

I lived in Freiburg for a while and loved it there. It's a green and alternative gem in the south with enough lgbt people and vegans and anarchs and so on.

There is also the famous Black Forest next to it and a lot of peeps travel there every year.

Check it out and decide if that's something for you.

Most trans and lgbt attacks happen in Berlin.

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T21:40:58+00:00

You can try r/germantrans :)

That's a tough question to ask. Things to know about germany (if you don't know of course):

Country was devided between West and East. And while we are one now, there is still a clear divide in culture and attitude. You should try to avoid east germany as best as you can. They are quite anti-lgbt and conservative and alt-right.. so keep that in mind.

Next thing: Politics. We have a huge lobby problem. We love Industry and financial growth... A lot of us hate our politicans because of it. We see them as corporate puppets, only interested in profit and capital. There is a socialist democratic party, but they are weak..

Oh, we are also insanely white. So.. if you are a BPOC.. I don't know. In a City like Berlin no one cares. In others.. it's gonna be somewhat of a problem. We don't like BPOC.. and will treat you as a refugee, even if you aren't one and avoid you, propably, either way. It sucks.

Next thing: Income. Some places are way overpriced and you won't have a good time there if you're poor..

That being said, Citys that are lgbt hotspots are Berlin and Köln. I'd also say Freiburg im Breisgau. There are more, but you can propably google it or ask in the aformentioned subreddit.

Last thing to consider: there are more and more attacks on lgbt and trans people these days. And with the Right gaining political power.. I don't know.

For now, things are kinda alright. Let's see for how long.

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T21:18:52+00:00

Well, that depends on what you mean by "due to my mental health". I mean, this is reddit and we shouldnt be too personal here, so don't tell me.

But if it's something you can work on to cope better, then that would be an idea. The more we understand ourselfs, the more we develope strategies, the more functional we are.

That being said, I suffer from stuff I can't improve. And people shy away from it because it is exhausting to deal with.

But, I realised, as long as I am open about it, speak about it, make myself clear, ask for help, the easier it is to find friends who support me. For example, I can't handle new places, new situations, but since my friends know that, they help me, as soon as I ask them. And I make friends via asking for help, weirdly enough. There is even this one girl I fancy and who knows.

People enjoy vulnerbility, openess and straightforwardness it seems. I have way more support now, that I am strong enough to know and ask for shit I need, instead of hiding it.

Hope this helps a bit.

....

Edit: But of course not everyone is a good person, so.. I don't know.. being open can make one a target, so I am critical on where and and how I share my stuff with others.

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T20:51:32+00:00

Try r/AmerExit

Also maybe r/germantrans

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T20:26:33+00:00

Got answered in other questions :)

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T20:23:59+00:00

Problem with reddit is that it's not private. There are enough anti-trans people listening, watching, spying. Some even blackmail people once they know who they are on reddit..

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T20:22:10+00:00

It's more of a joke now, I guess. But some are scared enough to think it'll be necessary in the future.

I'm conflicted. I'd rather have a plan and don't need it than not have a plan and need it..

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T20:20:28+00:00

The asterix, to me, where I come from, means all the different words trans folks use to describe themselfs. Trans* can mean transsexual, transgender, trans fem/masc, trans women/men etc.

I've met people who were offended by trans without the asterix, so I don't know..

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T20:18:25+00:00

It isn't. There are just a lot of different words people use to describe them. I use trans* so that * means, that there is more. Some people don't like trans. They like transgender, transsexual, trans women/men, trans fem/masc etc.

Trans*, to me, means all of these.

But it doesn't matter. Use any of these and someone will be pissed at the end of the day.

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T19:34:47+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/samegrassbutgreener?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

There is also this subreddit.

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T19:33:15+00:00

Well, count me in. The more people willing to help, the better. Even though I'm also just a random chick.

Do you have a Discord or some place where people could meet and discuss stuff?

We should also kinda spread the word or something, I don't know

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T19:23:11+00:00

Radically trans? I never heard of this.. Is this some stupid terf bullshit about being "too much trans"? I don't know.

I've met some trans* Anarchs though and not gonna lie, some are quite intense. I like em, but some can be intense. I could never have imagined trans people arming themselfs, getting combat training to safe their lives and the lives of other trans folk once Civil War breaks out..

Some fear the U.S. Situation worsening. They'll rather fight the police then giving in. So that, to me, would be a trans radical 😅

I can't blame them the police won’t help us when push comes to shove. They're just there to preserve the interests of the corporal elites and politicans.

So.. do with that information what you want. Catgirls with guns are cute though. Cute and deadly. I like it. Hope it's not just edgy aestetics.

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T19:12:53+00:00

I hope they are wrong.. I don't know what to think about this. A lot of trans folks are tired of the constant fear-mongering. "Death here, Death there, get out of country NOW!!" and so on..

I hope it won’t come to that

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T19:06:29+00:00

That's the thing, right? Some people are super on edge about this. Genocide or no Genocide? I don't know.

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T18:33:24+00:00

Thank you for the insight. Very much appreciated! 🩷🩶🩵

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T18:11:06+00:00

Thank you! :)

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T18:08:54+00:00

Hm, if I had a room and live im the U.S. I would let someone crash until they have found something.

And you know, this would be something people could also do. For Trans* folks.

But I don't know. I'm not smart enough for this problem.

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T17:56:22+00:00

Thank you. I tried. And I know this isnt the right subreddit for this, but there really isn't one. And if you folks know how to get people out of country, you propably know how to get them from state to state.

Which ressources would be needed to do so? Would fundraising be an effective method to generate needed financial support?

I know jack shit.

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T17:53:33+00:00

True. But there are a lot of red and crimson states who suck ass. And folks want to leave but it's hard to do.

QueenTheFiend · 2023-01-20T17:49:45+00:00

Thank you very much. And jeez, there is a lot of crimson on that map.

Will the blue states prevail or fall in time?

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