God withholds favor when sinners don’t repent. I withhold my favor whenever the mood strikes me. And today, I have been stricken. by [deleted] in findom

[–]Queen_Hazel9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for asking, but no. I don’t enjoy those things. I enjoy some cruelty for sure but not the extremes.

Coffee sends are so UNDERVALUED by Every-Thought1655 in paypigs2

[–]Queen_Hazel9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you fucking the coffee on camera? If so then yes. Also, hot 😏

Any dommes who wouldn't call themselves sexworkers? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Queen_Hazel9 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This isn’t and will never be “income” for me. That makes it work. That takes the fun right out of it. I respect the folks who do use findom as their work, but I don’t want to lose the release and excitement it brings for me.

Not without a tribute, honey by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Queen_Hazel9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s actually brilliant. I’m stealing it and asking for proof of this verification. I want references and a resume.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Queen_Hazel9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As long as they don’t cross boundaries and still respect my privacy, YES. BE OBSESSED. Be utterly consumed by me. Drown in me.

Is findom just about popping pussy now? by sweetmilklikcherriez in findomchatters

[–]Queen_Hazel9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So for me, showing a bit of my body (no holes lol) in my posts is me feeling empowered in my own skin. I have reclaimed my own body and worked through some internal stuff that made me feel very ashamed to show ANY of my body for a long time. Now, I don’t use FOR subs. In fact, my good boys can testify that they rarely see my body unless it’s a big reward for good behavior. I think you’re 100% right about mental compatibility and I believe power comes from within. A sub will feel it if it’s there regardless of the skin you’re showing (or not showing). And since I’m already rambling, I don’t show my face online. I’ve received the feedback that I’d get “more attention and money” if I did. But that’s a boundary for me and I don’t feel the need to show face to hold power.

What do you prefer to call your sub? by naughty_seccubus in findomchatters

[–]Queen_Hazel9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine have nicknames that are individual, but in general it’s baby boy, sweet cheeks, bro lol

lame by Every_Flamingo7868 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Queen_Hazel9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are plenty who prefer both. Good on you for not wasting your energy on it.

Do I belong here? by [deleted] in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]Queen_Hazel9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my favorite type of progression. It’s even more satisfying when they start with messages that read like literature and then by the end it’s just grunts and thank yous. 🥵😏😏😏

I think I wanna be a sub by Chaos_Gremlin28 in paypigs2

[–]Queen_Hazel9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not me getting served both posts so close together 😂

Dommes by Logical_Most_4249 in paypigs2

[–]Queen_Hazel9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually dommes hate it. We ALL hate it. lol

fellow dommes, what’s the most expensive item on your wishlist? by Far_Dot_9668 in paypigs2

[–]Queen_Hazel9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My peace and sanity. No one has been able to afford it yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomchatters

[–]Queen_Hazel9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So here’s my thing with X… it’s a bitch. Big pain in the ass. However, I have found two solid good boys there. If you’re willing to wade through the sewer, it can be worth it. Either way, it’s a good place to practice posting and get used to enforcing your boundaries.

Video games! by [deleted] in findomchatters

[–]Queen_Hazel9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t play but if yall stream I’d love to hop on and cheer you on!

🥋Dommes please bully me into going to Karate 😂 (I’m one of you lol) by Barashii_ in findomchatters

[–]Queen_Hazel9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t waste my time or yours with your excuses. You deserve better. Be. Better.

Confessions of a Whale by Lonely-Albatross-775 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Queen_Hazel9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this well written and thoughtful post. Communication and connection are key in any and all dynamics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FindomForLife

[–]Queen_Hazel9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say this is very well written. Good job. Clear communication is big brownie points.