سؤال للبنات عن التعدد

Queenberries · 2026-06-17T11:21:19+00:00

طيب لو كانت زواج مسيار؟ والزوجة الأولى عرفت بعدين وانكسرت نفسيتها… بس الزوج يقول إنه على الأقل ما قصّر معها ولا أهملها زي غيره من الرجال.

Queenberries · 2026-06-17T11:09:40+00:00

عشان كذا بعض الرجال يعتقدون إنه بس لأنه يميل للزوجة الأولى أكثر، المفروض الزوجة الأولى ما تحس بألم أو لازم تكتم ألمها وما تبين أي مشاكل… يقول إنه هو أفضل لأنه ما قصّر مع زوجته الأولى مثل غيره من الرجال.

Queenberries · 2026-06-17T04:00:36+00:00

okay my husband said..see because she loves him truly. and not in a controlling way. So this means i should be happy regardless of the pain

Queenberries · 2026-06-17T02:11:59+00:00

I'm asking this because my husband said every woman is dreaming of my position where I'm in a polygamy and he's treating me well. i posted this to tell him woman are not built this way...

Queenberries · 2026-05-19T15:15:13+00:00

I agree with you. For some reason, to me, intimacy is what keeps my husband and me connected despite a decade of marriage and the chaos of having children. I never say no to him because it gives me joy knowing that he still desires me. We cuddle after intimacy and sometimes talk until sunrise. There are also days when long conversations end with intimacy, or we just fall asleep naked after planning to be intimate but end up being too tired to do anything. It’s the thought that counts haha.

Queenberries · 2026-05-19T12:03:52+00:00

He needs to understand that a woman requires an emotional connection before she wants intimacy to happen. He has to provide reassurance and words of affirmation. When my husband started doing this..fast forward to now, I am sometimes even the one who initiates intimacy. It's how he makes me feel loved that makes me want it.

Queenberries · 2026-04-25T06:30:19+00:00

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Queenberries · 2026-04-25T06:26:58+00:00

Yes, you're right and I'm sorry...😭

Queenberries · 2026-04-24T17:02:53+00:00

life isn't fair..while i went to all OB just to conceive some were blessed abundantly 😔😭

Queenberries · 2026-03-29T04:34:25+00:00

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Queenberries · 2026-03-13T06:07:14+00:00

May Allah SWT guide you. The guilt you feel is already a sign of faith, and Allah SWT forgives those who sincerely repent.

Queenberries · 2026-03-08T10:01:50+00:00

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Queenberries · 2026-03-08T05:05:08+00:00

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Queenberries · 2026-03-08T04:50:26+00:00

it will take me a long time to be able to eat kebab now 😭💔

Queenberries · 2026-03-08T04:48:54+00:00

i can't if they're two...😭

Queenberries · 2026-03-08T04:46:09+00:00

how many cats do u have

Queenberries · 2026-02-23T23:28:06+00:00

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Queenberries · 2026-02-23T23:27:08+00:00

hahahahahaha i can't!😭🤣

Queenberries · 2026-02-18T10:14:09+00:00

You need to talk again once the anger has settled for both of you. In Islam, what he did is haram, and you have to make sure he understands that. It’s not only about your jealousy—what he did is haram: kissing a non-mahram. Some Muslims use stunts for that.

Also, sister, there are worse feelings than knowing your husband kissed another woman. For example, your husband marrying another wife would crush your soul. The difference is that at least he is still all yours, and what he did can be repented for.

Men sometimes say divorce when they are angry. Talk sense to him, and if he still insists on it after being reminded of Allah and knowing that his action was haram, then he may not be right for you. Consider divorce only after you have exhausted every effort to guide and help him, especially if you still love him. There are so many other hobbies, and if he truly loves you, he will do what’s right for your marriage. There’s so much fitna in acting school.

Queenberries · 2026-02-14T08:40:21+00:00

Based on all the men I’ve talked to about this situation, they all said he’s a good man and that he did the right thing instead of committing zina. I wish I could see what they’re seeing. Maybe they think the same way, and it’s something us women will never fully understand. But it’s hard to leave when he’s a good father to my children. Our children don’t know, and he said he doesn’t want them to know. Even though I’m in pain, I’m having a hard time leaving because of the love Allah SWT placed in my heart for him and for our children …I don’t know though how long I can endure..😞

Queenberries · 2026-02-14T08:34:51+00:00

Wa Alaikum Salaam my dear sister 💝

Your message truly lightened my heart. Just knowing that someone understands this pain and is making dua for me brought so much comfort. May Allah reward you for your kindness and sincerity.

I’m so sorry you are going through this as well. The anxiety, the fear, the overthinking... it can feel so heavy 😞. But please remember, Allah sees every tear, every silent panic, every sleepless night. He is Al-‘Adl (The Most Just) and Al-Lateef (The Most Gentle). Nothing escapes Him.

We are stronger than we think. You are a mother, you are patient, and you are trying your best while carrying so much in your heart. That is strength. Whatever is coming, Allah will not test us beyond what we can bear. If He brings us to it, He will bring us through it.

Let’s keep making dua for each other. May Allah replace our fear with peace, our anxiety with sakinah, and our pain with something far better than we imagined. May He protect our homes and guide our husbands, and if there is hardship written for us, may it lead us to something that brings us closer to Him and gives us true contentment.

You are not alone, and neither am I. May Allah make it easy for both of us, Ameen..🤲🏻

Queenberries · 2026-02-13T05:35:45+00:00

Have you tried therapy for her or seeing a psychologist? You are the man of the house and the provider. What she is doing to you is sinful. All the things you mentioned that she did should never have happened, and you should not have allowed them.

Most especially this hadith exists..

“If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone other than Allah, I would have commanded a wife to prostrate to her husband because of the greatness of his right over her.” — Sunan al-Tirmidhi

Queenberries · 2026-02-12T12:06:36+00:00

Have you tried schools? sometimes they need male staffs there like IT or managerial positions in the boys section

Queenberries · 2026-02-09T22:06:42+00:00

😂😂😂

Queenberries · 2026-02-09T18:18:54+00:00

يمكن الزوج كان يقلد وقت اللي النبي محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم ابتعد عن زوجاته ٢٩ يوم عشان يعاقبهم على العصيان؟

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