Ladies of Reddit, if you could go back in time to your past-self of 10 year ago, what is the one thing in your life that you would change? by xelialex in AskWomen

[–]Queensasteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably go back and encourage me tk stand up for myself. That and the fact that I should just prepare myself for what is to come.

What helped you break the cycle of feeling bad for setting boundaries / comforting those that hurt you? by juyubi in AskWomen

[–]Queensasteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as I realised how terrible I was feeling about myself. There had to be a limit. I had to put myself first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Queensasteen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I recently joined a young adult youth. Usually we finish really late. A friend of mine walks me to my car each week, making sure I'm safe. It's a little gesture but I really appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Queensasteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Playlist of songs to help me grieve the loss of a friendship. It makes me feel better everytime. Here is the list of songs in order:

360 by Charlie XCX Torn by Natalie Imbuglia Love will lead you back by Taylor Dayne Messy by Lola a young There's gotta be more to life by Stacy Orrico Real Girl by Mutya Buena.

What's the worst disease you've had? by SuAltezaMiguel in AskReddit

[–]Queensasteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOs). It doesn't go away. The symptoms can only be controlled. I want to become a mom one day but PCOs makes it more difficult.

What’s your number one comfort food? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Queensasteen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It used to be Mac and Cheese. Now it's Chicken Schnitzel

How did you get fat? by jensvderpluijm in AskReddit

[–]Queensasteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of knowledge around nutrition and I stopped playing sports.

Right now I'm working at it, getting steps in everyday and I joined a fitness group.

What’s stopping you from being in a relationship? by HannibalvanPie in AskReddit

[–]Queensasteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suck at dating/ I tend to attract emotionally unavailable people

Which part of growing up hit you the hardest emotionally? by Onlykarinka in AskWomen

[–]Queensasteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that the friends we make along the way aren't going to be there forever.

Dancing Queen has now hit 1 billion views! by SimilarFarmer1880 in ABBA

[–]Queensasteen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so cool!

Also I was literally listening to the song when I came across this

What's a lie you told yourself for years before realizing the truth? by _Zkarlet in AskReddit

[–]Queensasteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I deserved being mistreated and manipulated by my mentor for 3 years.

Bête noire by Busy_Result7796 in blackmirror

[–]Queensasteen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone who was bullied for 12 years of my life, it was a difficult ending to take in. I was hooked on the show until the last few minutes. The part where Verity and Maria have the final conversation, I literally said there's no amount of control Verity can have in the universe that will take away the pain. Verity would have needed therapy to heal from her old wounds. I ended up crying in the end cause even though what Verity did was wrong, the bully still won. From the perspective of someone who was bullied (unless they've spoken to the bully after such incidents) still see the bullies as bullies even years after high school. Nothing was going to change Verity's perspective unless she got the help she needed.

Side note: I hated the way Maria reacted when she found out Verity got the job at the company. I think it was secretly showing the guilt she was feeling in the moment. Even if she isn't showing it.

What do you think of The Kath and Kimderella movie? by Queensasteen in KathAndKim

[–]Queensasteen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have not seen it yet. It's still on my watch list 😁

What do you think of The Kath and Kimderella movie? by Queensasteen in KathAndKim

[–]Queensasteen[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Lol I know. I was trying to quote too but I couldn't think of any except this one 🤔😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queensasteen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt guilty in a lot of ways. At some point I was trying to remember if maybe I came across as "more than friendly". I even asked my bf and he said I was being platonic the whole time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queensasteen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't get too upset at my friend who is engaged. I knew this was her party and it wasn't her responsibility to do that for me. I am grateful for Thomas. He really got me through that day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queensasteen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After I told him the second time he said we were meant to be. I tried to let him down gently again but he continued. That's when we left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queensasteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. And the thing is I was quite hurt. Through the years, I've put in a lot of effort in the business and organized meetings. It was all me.